About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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female bisexuality

Why Do Women Become More Bisexual as They Age?

Women become more bisexual as they age, according to science.

Like most women, I have no shame in admitting that I find other females attractive. I have even admitted to being open to bisexual experimentation (“Of course I would sleep with Halle Berry! It’s a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity”).

For women, it’s perfectly acceptable to be a little bi-curious (cue every male fantasy), and according to research, it’s the norm. Read more

Why Your Girlfriend Wants to Be with Another Woman

A recent study confirmed that many, if not most, women are turned on by other women. What does that mean for your relationship?

Your girlfriend is probably turned on by other women—at least that’s what the findings from a new study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology suggest.

In the experiment, women who claimed to be straight actually showed the same signs of physical arousal when watching sexy videos of naked women as they did when viewing ones of dudes. Blood flow to their genitals increased and their pupils dilated.  Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.