About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Teabagging: What It Is and How to Do It

The term teabagging has nothing to do with making tea. Teabagging is the act of a man placing his scrotum into the mouth of a woman, usually while standing or kneeling over her. It gets its name from its similarity to the dunking motion of a tea bag when making tea. Since the testicles are an extremely sensitive erogenous zone, dipping them into a woman’s mouth can be quite pleasurable Although teabagging is often seen as an act of domination by a man or submission by a woman, when a woman takes a man’s most sensitive body part in her mouth, the question arises as to who really has the upper hand. Continue reading

The Two Moves That Make Fellatio Most Enjoyable

Performing fellatio on a maan is sometimes called “sucking him off.” Sucking is a major reason that blow jobs so enjoyable for men. Our mouths have the unique ability to create suction, or a vacuum effect. This is a sensation that will drive your partner wil, and bring him to orgasm again and again. Suction may be also the reason why many men prefer fellatio to sexual intercourse: A vagina can’t suck! You can only give a man the kind of pleasure that sucking provides with your mouth. You have two options for sucking: Continue reading

How to Give a Mind-Blowing Blow Job

Tara Babcock reveals how to give and receive a mind-blowing blow job.

Why Do Men Want Women to Swallow?

Sexpert Ducky Doolittle explains to a female reader why men want women to swallow.

Q: My partner wants me to swallow when I give him oral sex. What’s the appeal?

A: Some guys are very adamant about wanting their partners to swallow their ejaculate. Other guys just want their partner to do exactly what makes them feel most comfortable, swallow or not. And then other guys aren’t into seeing their partners swallow at all. Read more

3 Oral Sex Tips tto Spice Up 69

Sexpert Emily Morse shares three oral sex tips to spice up 69.

The road to truly spectacular sex is a two-way street. Sometimes, you’ve gotta give a little to get a little—So why not give and get at the same time? That’s why 69 is a fan-favorite in the bedroom. In this position, we’re able to provide a partner with continuous oral pleasure without sacrificing a moment of our own. Read more

Are Regular Blow Jobs the Key to a Happy Marriage?

Samara Rose says the key to a happy marriage is weekly (if not daily) blow jobs.

My friend and her husband are ending their marriage over the most banal of issues: sex.

“But Samara, your marriage didn’t work out. Should you be passing judgment?”

Shut your pie hole! My marriage didn’t end because I wouldn’t blow my husband!

They’re ending their marriage because they are “sexually incompatible.” He wants her to do certain things that she hasn’t done since they were dating. He’s angry that she’s being “withholding.” She’s angry that he’s a “sex addict.”

Essentially, they are ending their marriage over blow jobs.

I do not profess to be a sexpert. However, If I were to write a manual on how to have a successful marriage, I would name it, “Put Your Mouth On His Penis.” After all, the way to a man’s heart is through oral sex. Read more

Better Fellatio: How to Give a Hum Job

HummerUsing the same blow job  moves every time will quickly get boring to your partner, so it’s important that you vary your techniques. A hum job or “hummer” is a fellatio technique where you literally hum or moan while going down on a guy. Many women do this spontaneously or because they know that guys like it. The next step is to understand why guys like it, and to use that knowledge to make your blow jobs more pleasurable for your partner. Continue reading

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