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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How to Give a Quickie Blow Job: 3 Steps to a Fast Climax

Satisfied ManHave you ever avoided giving blow a job because your were short on time, tired, or not really in the moodd? What if you could give a quickie blow jobSlow and get your partner off quickly. The key to the quickie blow job is to give your partner such a rush of sensation that he quickly goes over the edge. These three techniques use the same strategy of focusing on the most sensitive parts of the penis, but in slightly different ways. You may only need the first two, but the third is there is you need it. Continue reading

7 Fellatio Tricks You’re STILL Not Trying

Kayla Keegan shares seven fellatio tricks you’re probably still not trying even after all these years.

No matter how many times you’ve given your husband a BJ, sexpert Dr. Jane Greer and sexologist Dr. Jill McDevitt, who offers in-home Fellatio 101 classes, say that these tips are just what you need to make your already-stellar BJ even more fun and pleasurable for you both. Get ready for the “Woah, where did that come from?” reaction: Read more

6 Fellatio Tips and Tricks

sexy-couplehMost men love fellatio. Some men even prefer a blow job to sexual intercourse. Since oral sex is such a big deal for men, women ought to know how to do it well.  When you are able to give your man a great blow job, you will gain a power over him that you never thought possible.  He will be constantly thinking of you and begging for that pleasure again. These six fellatio tips and tricks will help make your blow jobs unforgettable. Continue reading

4 Fellatio Techniques You Need to Try

Funny Girl Sex Guide demonstrates four fellatio techniques you need to try.

How to Give a Double Blow Job

Two girls one guyWhether you call it fellatio, a blow job, or giving head, almost all men LOVE oral sex, and many women love giving it. One way to have even more fun with oral sex is to give a double blow job. A double blow job is two women giving fellatio to one man. To give a double blow job, you need two things: First, you need a man who deserves to get one. Second, you need a partner who thinks giving a double blow job would be fun. Ideally, she also likes the man, or is a good enough friend to you that she wants to help you please him. Continue reading

5 Tips for Better Fellatio

Woman Looking Inside PantsFellatio, giving head, giving a blow-job – almost all men love oral sex by whatever name, and many women like giving it. Fellatio is the act of applying your lips to a man’s penis with the purpose of giving him pleasure. Men are different, and they like different things, so there’s no point learning a perfect fellatio “routine.” However, here are five tips that will guarantee a good blow job.

1) Turn him on visually.

Men are turned on by visual stimuli, so try kneeling in front of a mirror during fellatio so that he can see you, or position yourself doggy style so he can see your butt in the air. Undressing, either partially or completely, can add tto his enjoyment. Continue reading

A Fellatio Trick to Make a Man Climax Quicker

Oral SexAlthough premature ejaculation is never a good thing, it’s not uncommon for a woman’s jaws to get  tired and sore after performing fellatio for a long time. If you wan to hurry rather than delay the process of ejaculation, but don’t want to disappoint your man either, this fellatio trick comes in handy. With this technique, men climax much more rapidly, and it works on all men – regardless of their penis size, their being circumcised or uncircumcised, or of their state of excitement. Continue reading

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