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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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6 Fellatio Tips and Tricks

sexy-couplehMost men love fellatio. Some men even prefer a blow job to sexual intercourse. Since oral sex is such a big deal for men, women ought to know how to do it well.  When you are able to give your man a great blow job, you will gain a power over him that you never thought possible.  He will be constantly thinking of you and begging for that pleasure again. These six fellatio tips and tricks will help make your blow jobs unforgettable. Continue reading

4 Fellatio Techniques You Need to Try

Funny Girl Sex Guide demonstrates four fellatio techniques you need to try.

How to Give a Double Blow Job

Two girls one guyWhether you call it fellatio, a blow job, or giving head, almost all men LOVE oral sex, and many women love giving it. One way to have even more fun with oral sex is to give a double blow job. A double blow job is two women giving fellatio to one man. To give a double blow job, you need two things: First, you need a man who deserves to get one. Second, you need a partner who thinks giving a double blow job would be fun. Ideally, she also likes the man, or is a good enough friend to you that she wants to help you please him. Continue reading

5 Tips for Better Fellatio

Woman Looking Inside PantsFellatio, giving head, giving a blow-job – almost all men love oral sex by whatever name, and many women like giving it. Fellatio is the act of applying your lips to a man’s penis with the purpose of giving him pleasure. Men are different, and they like different things, so there’s no point learning a perfect fellatio “routine.” However, here are five tips that will guarantee a good blow job.

1) Turn him on visually.

Men are turned on by visual stimuli, so try kneeling in front of a mirror during fellatio so that he can see you, or position yourself doggy style so he can see your butt in the air. Undressing, either partially or completely, can add tto his enjoyment. Continue reading

A Fellatio Trick to Make a Man Climax Quicker

Oral SexAlthough premature ejaculation is never a good thing, it’s not uncommon for a woman’s jaws to get  tired and sore after performing fellatio for a long time. If you wan to hurry rather than delay the process of ejaculation, but don’t want to disappoint your man either, this fellatio trick comes in handy. With this technique, men climax much more rapidly, and it works on all men – regardless of their penis size, their being circumcised or uncircumcised, or of their state of excitement. Continue reading

How to Give Your First Blow Job: 5 Steps to Suck-cess

Unzipping PantsHave you been thinking about giving your first blow job, but feeling a little nervous about actually doing it? Maybe you’re worried that you’ll do something wrong, or that you’ll be so bad that the boy won;t enjoy it. It’s completely normal to be nervous about trying something new for the first time. Fortunately, giving a blow job isn’t rocket science. Following this step-by-step guide is all it will take to make your first blow job a huge “suck-cess.”

1) Get into position.

When you’re ready to give your first blow job, you will need to get into a position where you can put the penis into your mouth and move your head. The traditional position for a blow job is for the girl to be on her knees with the boy standing or sitting in front of her. Another good position is for the girl to be sitting with the boy standing in front of her. However, any position is fine as long as you can stay in it awhile and move your head. Continue reading

AskMyGF: Girlfriend Doesn’t Give Head Well

AskMyGirlfriend answers a question: “I am my girlfriends first BF and she’s never had any sexual experiences prior to me. Getting a BJ, to me, is a close second to actually having sex, but she doesn’t really do a good job. How can I tell her to give better head or teach her, she won’t look this up herself and probably won’t look at any how-to videos or stuff. So, what can I ask/tell her to do when she’s giving me head so it’ll be better for me?”

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