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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Top 5 Fellatio Tricks Men Wish Women Would Try

For many men, a blow job is the holy grail of sex. They usually appreciate almost any effort women make to satisfy them orally (except biting). Nevertheless, men will admit that there are some techniques that make fellatio better that not all women do. That’s too bad because the techniques they mention for the most part are  easy to do. It’s just that some women don’t know to do them. These are the top five fellatio tricks that men wish women would try. Continue reading

Porn Stars Reveal 3 Secrets to the Perfect Blow Job

Porn stars reveal how to give the perfect jobs.

If you’ve ever gone down on your significant other and found yourself wondering if you’re doing it right or whether or not if it’s the best they’ve ever had, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re just wondering or maybe you’re looking to better your head game.

Either way, if you want to learn how to give the perfect blow job, you’re going to have to learn from the very best in the business: porn stars.

WoodRocket recently released a video that gives us curious or dedicated Internet searchers all the nitty-gritty insight into tips for pleasing a man’s tip. I imagine that porn stars probably get asked about this all the time, at least enough to make them put out a video on the low down for going down. Read more

A Blow Job Guide for Women Who Hate Giving Blow Jobs

Every man loves fellatio, but not every woman loves to give it. If you are one of those woman, this guide will help.

What’s the thing that every man loves the most? Drinking a cold beer on a hot day and watching his favorite game on TV? Sure… while his woman kneels down in front of him and wraps her mouth and tongue around his love tool! Read more

5 Sensational Fellatio Techniques He Will Love

Licking LipsWomen know that men love fellatio, but did you ever stop to think why? Yes, looking down at a woman pleasuring his most prized possession is a boost to the male ego, but the main reason is the variety of sensations a blow job provides.Why not takee advantage of that to spice up your blow jobs? These five fellatio techniques use your mouth, lips, tongue, and even your hands, to give your man the intense sensation he craves..

1) French kiss the head

When giving a blow job. instead of starting to suck right away, warm up his penis with your lips Give the head a slow, sensual, wet French Kiss You know how exciting a French kiss feels, so imagine your partner not only feeling you French kissing his penis, but also watching you do it. If you kiss his penis with the same passion that you would kiss his lips, it will definitely turn him on!

2) Use flat-tongue foreplay

Slowly lick his penis with a flat tongue from the base to the tip. Lick as if you’re trying to press every square inch of your tongue onto his penis. You’re not just tasting him; you’re trying to savor him.

3) Squeeze the base.

Two of the most sensitive areas on the penis are the head and the base. While you are sucking on the head, use your hand to squeeze the base. This not only provides stimulation to two parts of the penis at once, but also squeezes blood into the penis. This hardens it and also enhances sensation.

4) Catch and release.

Catch and release is a technique to use if your partner likes his testicles played with (and he probably does). As you’re sucking on his penis, pull his testicles down on your up stroke, and then release as you go down. Just before a man ejaculates, his testicles retract into his body slightly. The Catch and Release technique mimics that sensation..

5) Massage the perineum.

The pubococcygeus (PC) muscle is what “shoots” out a man’s semen when he ejaculates. This muscle begins behind his testicles at his perineum. What can make his orgasm much more powerful is massaging his perineum (the area between his testicles and anus) during a blow job.

First, cup his testicles in your palm. Then place your index and middle finger on to perineum and massage the area in a circular or back and forth motion. This will not only feel good to him, but also “clear the passage” and make these PC muscle pump harder during ejaculation. That will make orgasm more intense.

the surprise of something new and different will get your partner’s attention and make him wonder what else is on the agenda. Adding these techniques to your oral sex repertoire will make your blow jobs more fun and exciting.  That’s the point, after all.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here! .

10 Ways To Make Blow Jobs More Fun For EVERYONE

Even if oral sex is good, who wouldn’t want to make it even better? Em & Lo share ten ways to make blow jobs more fun for everyone.

Going down on someone is no easy task. And letting someone go down on you can be quite nerve-racking. Despite these potential oral sex setbacks, the experience can be awesome.

Both partners deserve to enjoy the journey down south. Rather than focusing solely on techniques to please the receiver, I’m going to share some secret tips that will benefit both partners — how to improve your overall experience without having to change those special techniques that already work for you and your partner. Read more

How to Give a Quickie Blow Job: 3 Steps to a Fast Climax

Satisfied ManHave you ever avoided giving blow a job because your were short on time, tired, or not really in the moodd? What if you could give a quickie blow jobSlow and get your partner off quickly. The key to the quickie blow job is to give your partner such a rush of sensation that he quickly goes over the edge. These three techniques use the same strategy of focusing on the most sensitive parts of the penis, but in slightly different ways. You may only need the first two, but the third is there is you need it. Continue reading

7 Fellatio Tricks You’re STILL Not Trying

Kayla Keegan shares seven fellatio tricks you’re probably still not trying even after all these years.

No matter how many times you’ve given your husband a BJ, sexpert Dr. Jane Greer and sexologist Dr. Jill McDevitt, who offers in-home Fellatio 101 classes, say that these tips are just what you need to make your already-stellar BJ even more fun and pleasurable for you both. Get ready for the “Woah, where did that come from?” reaction: Read more

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