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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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9 Blow Job Secrets Men Will Never Tell You

Frank Kobola reveals nine blow job secrets men will never tell women.

1. He might daydream a little. Getting a blow job can sometimes be relaxing, like a massage. He’s sitting back and just enjoying himself, so his mind might wander a bit. That’s a compliment, promise. Just make sure he doesn’t fall asleep. Read more

How to Give a Quickie Blow Job: 3 Steps to a Fast Climax

Satisfied ManHave you ever avoided giving blow a job because your were short on time, tired, or not really in the moodd? What if you could give a quickie blow jobSlow and get your partner off quickly. The key to the quickie blow job is to give your partner such a rush of sensation that he quickly goes over the edge. These three techniques use the same strategy of focusing on the most sensitive parts of the penis, but in slightly different ways. You may only need the first two, but the third is there is you need it. Continue reading

My Fellatio Ebook Has Been Published!

Fellatio SecretsI have been writing about sex and relationships since 2007 at Sex Secrets. I am also the author of Anal Sex Secrets: A Guide to Great Anal Sex. In the years since starting my blog, I’ve personally mentored numerous girls and women on their fellatio skills. Some have gone literally from never having given a blow job to deep throating under my tutelage. The response to my advice has been so positive that I decided to put it together in a book. Fellatio Secrets: How to Give Him the Best Blow Job He’s Ever Had is the result.

Fellatio, giving head, giving a blow job: Most men LOVE getting oral sex, and many women love giving it. If you’re one of these women, or would like to be, Fellatio Secrets is for you. This book is for both nervous beginners and for seasoned lovers searching for new things to try. Continue reading

10 Fellatio Tips to Drive Your Man Wild

Men love fellatio, blow jobs, sucking or whatever they prefer to call it. Lucrezia magazine has ten tips to make Valentine’s Day (or any other day) special for your man. (And here’s a bonus tip from me: always swallow. It is insulting to your man if you spit out his semen. It is also a turn off.)

Men love blow jobs and when it comes to sex, it is the one thing they repeatedly ask for and the one thing they would really love more of. There are tips, tricks and techniques that can turn a ho-hum hummer into a va-va vroom wild ride. By mixing things up he’ll never know what to expect and you’ll have his knees weak before your lips ever touch him. Most guys will say that any blow job is a good one but if you want to keep him coming back for more and coming for you and you alone try these tips and tricks that’ll drive him wild.

Tease, torture and tantalize
Don’t dive for his penis right away. Just like you, he has many other erogenous zones all over his body. Read more

8 Fellatio Tricks That Drive Men Wild

Standing-FellatioEvery man loves receiving fellatio from his woman, and your man is no exception. It is a great way to give him pleasure, regardless of whether it is for foreplay, after play, or the main event. Social messages about fellatio suggest that men love it so much that they don’t care about technique. In reality, consummate skill is required to suck a man’s penis and provide him with the highest degree of pleasure possible. While practice makes perfect, here are eight tricks you can use to improve your fellatio technique. Continue reading

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