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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How to Tell If She's Faking It

Alex Allman explains how to tell if your girlfriend or wife is “faking it” in bed. Pay particular attention to his explanation of why we fake it.

How to Make Sure She Never Fakes Her Orgasms with You

The famous scene in When Harry Met Sally demonstrates how easy it is for a woman to fake an orgasm. So, can a man really tell if his lover is faking? David Van Arrick at the The Singles Cafe answers a reader’s question on the topic: “How do you know that a woman is orgasming (I mean 100% sure)?”

As she gets closer and closer her vaginal muscles will tense more and more. Her mental focus will be on the source of sexual stimulation, her extraneous body movements may decrease or increase (usually decrease) her eyes will close, her face and chest will flush, the muscles around her vaginal opening will clench tighter and tighter.

The muscles in her abdomen, pelvis, hips and thighs will tense, her back will arch and she may thrust her hips forward toward the source of the stimulation, and finally usually right before she climaxes there will be what I call ” the calm before the storm” just before she goes over the edge of climax she will completely freeze up this may last anywhere from one to five seconds after which all of her muscles spontaneously relax and she becomes lost in wave after wave of orgasmic release. Read more

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