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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Erotic Massage

How to Give a Tantric Breast Massage

Though most men, and even many women, are fascinated by breasts, they actually can be an incredibly neglected and forgotten area in the realm of Tantric pleasure and touch. Breast massage is a fantastic way to nurture and pleasure your lover.  Jennifer Lawless of Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy explains how to give a Tantric breast massage to the woman in your life.

A Tantric breast massage is a ritual that allows a woman to receive sensual energy and unconditional love from her partner. The breast massage is a special type of Tantric massage that focuses on the woman’s breasts. Not only does massaging the breasts make them firmer, it also makes them healthier and aids in maintaining the balance of hormones in a woman�’s body. Breast massage is also a great way for a man to give pleasure, healing, and intimacy to his partner. The breasts are the seat of a woman’s sexuality and need to be loved and honored before any other part of her body will open up to you.

Breast massage can be tricky because breast tissues are quite delicate. However, if done properly and with exerting only moderate pressure, massaging the breasts is perfectly safe. The procedure is also quite simple. Read more

6 Positions for Better Sex Play

Dr. Pam Spurr describes six positions for better sex play, beginning with “The Swan.”

The Swan
The “swan” is a great way to stimulate your partner’s penis and testicles when you’ve been roaming around his other erogenous zones. Imagine your thumb and fingers coming together in the shape of the old-fashioned shadow puppet — the “swan.” This is great for gently clasping the testicles between the beak-like shape formed by your fingers. Gently pull them a little. Now open your fingers up again and swirl them around his inner thighs. Then stop and stroke his perineum. Read more

How to Give a Tantric Clitoral Massage

Clitoral massage is an excellent skill to have in your repertoire when making love to a woman. If you really want to impress your female partner, Jennifer Lawless at Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy tells you how to make her clitoris the center of attention by giving her a clitoral massage. .

All women are capable of having an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. In fact, the sole function of the clitoris is to give a woman pleasure and bring her to orgasm. The purpose of clitoral massage is to make her clitoris the center of attention. It can be done by itself, or as part of a Yoni massage, a G-spot massage, or an erotic massage. Read more

6 Ways to Massage Your Lover's Breasts without Hurting Her

Do you know how to handle your lover’s breasts properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts, and even more so during sexual massage. So what do you do?

A woman has a lot of erogenous zones. But one that is universally known is her breasts. You really can’t give a sexual massage if you don’t give enough attention – and respect – to woman’s lovely pair of breasts.

However, sadly, a lot of men manhandle breasts! Worse, many of you guys think that we love you pinching, grabbing, and even biting them. Ok, maybe we don’t mind as much in the middle of a really, wild romp between the sheets but for the most part, doing that hurts!

So how do you ensure that you don’t cause pain when sexually massaging her breasts? Read on!

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