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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Erotic Massage

Tips for Giving a Great Breast Massage

Tantric sex educator shares tips for giving a great breast massage.

How to Give a Woman a Sensual Erotic Massage

An erotic massage can be a fun time by itself or lead to something more. Find out how to give your woman a sensual erotic massage.

Everyone loves getting a massage. It relaxes the body, stimulates circulation, and feels great. The only thing that tops a massage is a sensual erotic massage. It’s a great way for you and your lover to have a sexy time together and make her feel good. You don’t need to be a massage therapist, either, to give a sexual erotic massage. Just follow the steps below. Read more

How to Give Your Man a Tantric Testicle Massage

The testicles are often neglected as an erogenous zone. Jennifer Lawless reveals how to correct that omission..

Testicles are one of the most sensitive parts of a man’s body. Knowing this, many women are afraid to massage their men’s testicle for ear hurting them. The irony is it’s this sensitivity that makes men feel pleasure when their testicles are stroked or massaged. The testicles on a man are one of the most erogenous spots if touched and stimulated correctly. The truth is that testicle massage can be a sensual experience for a man if a lover is doing it. It can be done by itself, or as part of an erotic massage, a lingam massage, or a male G-spot massage. Read more

Please Your Woman with Tantric Perineal Massage

Jennifer Lawless reveals how to please a woman with Tantric perineal massage.

If you want a simple way to spice up lovemaking with your woman, perineal massage might be the technique you’re looking for. Located between the vagina and the anus, the perineum is packed with pleasurable nerve endings. In fact, the clitoris often extends down through a woman’s labia and through her perineum and anus, allowing her to experience pleasure in all these areas. You can stimulate this often overlooked erotic body part in two ways: while you’re performing oral sex and while having sex from behind (if her legs are spread to allow access). Read more

4 Massage Techniques for Better Sex

Rubbing a woman the right way can turn her on and lead to better sex, says Desirée Gallas.

Admit it, you’ve probably given your woman more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm her up for sex. But you can do better. “Think of massage as sex without the penetration,” says Juan Urosa, a licensed massage therapist from New York City’s acclaimed Great Jones Spa. These 4 massage tips will help turn her on so you both have better sex. Read more

How to Give the Perfect Massage

Giving your woman an incredible massage could be your ticket to nirvana. Here’s how to make it happen.

Admit it, you’ve probably given your woman more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm her up for sex. But you can do better. “Think of massage as sex without the penetration,” says Juan Urosa, a licensed massage therapist from New York City’s acclaimed Great Jones Spa. Do it right, and she’ll be putty in your hands.

Soak her muscles
Get her relaxed before you amaze her. “Prepare a bath and pour in some essential oils,” Urosa says. (You’ll find them in any “chick” store.) “The bath will get her muscles ready for the massage.” And it gives you an excuse to towel her off. Read more

How to Rub Each Other the Right Way

These four sensual massages can banish stress and boost your sex life.

On the list of life’s greatest pleasures, massages rank up there with wine and chocolate. But a good rubdown does more than just ease achy muscles. Depending on the technique, it can melt away stress, get you in the mood for sex, or function as an especially erotic kind of foreplay. “Massage is the ultimate bonding experience,” says certified massage therapist Lisa Skye Carle. “Pampering each other feels nurturing and intimate, and you’re bound to discover loads of new and unexpected erogenous zones along the way—it’s the ultimate primer for sex.” Whether you want to wind down or get all wound up, there’s a massage here to meet your needs. Read more

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