The testicles are often neglected as an erogenous zone. Jennifer Lawless reveals how to correct that omission..
Testicles are one of the most sensitive parts of a man’s body. Knowing this, many women are afraid to massage their men’s testicle for ear hurting them. The irony is it’s this sensitivity that makes men feel pleasure when their testicles are stroked or massaged. The testicles on a man are one of the most erogenous spots if touched and stimulated correctly. The truth is that testicle massage can be a sensual experience for a man if a lover is doing it. It can be done by itself, or as part of an erotic massage, a lingam massage, or a male G-spot massage. Read more
Jennifer Lawless reveals how to please a woman with Tantric perineal massage.
If you want a simple way to spice up lovemaking with your woman, perineal massage might be the technique you’re looking for. Located between the vagina and the anus, the perineum is packed with pleasurable nerve endings. In fact, the clitoris often extends down through a woman’s labia and through her perineum and anus, allowing her to experience pleasure in all these areas. You can stimulate this often overlooked erotic body part in two ways: while you’re performing oral sex and while having sex from behind (if her legs are spread to allow access). Read more
Rubbing a woman the right way can turn her on and lead to better sex, says Desirée Gallas.
Admit it, you’ve probably given your woman more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm her up for sex. But you can do better. “Think of massage as sex without the penetration,” says Juan Urosa, a licensed massage therapist from New York City’s acclaimed Great Jones Spa. These 4 massage tips will help turn her on so you both have better sex. Read more
Giving your woman an incredible massage could be your ticket to nirvana. Here’s how to make it happen.
Admit it, you’ve probably given your woman more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm her up for sex. But you can do better. “Think of massage as sex without the penetration,” says Juan Urosa, a licensed massage therapist from New York City’s acclaimed Great Jones Spa. Do it right, and she’ll be putty in your hands.
Soak her muscles
Get her relaxed before you amaze her. “Prepare a bath and pour in some essential oils,” Urosa says. (You’ll find them in any “chick” store.) “The bath will get her muscles ready for the massage.” And it gives you an excuse to towel her off. Read more
These four sensual massages can banish stress and boost your sex life.
On the list of life’s greatest pleasures, massages rank up there with wine and chocolate. But a good rubdown does more than just ease achy muscles. Depending on the technique, it can melt away stress, get you in the mood for sex, or function as an especially erotic kind of foreplay. “Massage is the ultimate bonding experience,” says certified massage therapist Lisa Skye Carle. “Pampering each other feels nurturing and intimate, and you’re bound to discover loads of new and unexpected erogenous zones along the way—it’s the ultimate primer for sex.” Whether you want to wind down or get all wound up, there’s a massage here to meet your needs. Read more
Though most men, and even many women, are fascinated by breasts, they actually can be an incredibly neglected and forgotten area in the realm of Tantric pleasure and touch. Breast massage is a fantastic way to nurture and pleasure your lover. Jennifer Lawless of Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy explains how to give a Tantric breast massage to the woman in your life.
A Tantric breast massage is a ritual that allows a woman to receive sensual energy and unconditional love from her partner. The breast massage is a special type of Tantric massage that focuses on the woman’s breasts. Not only does massaging the breasts make them firmer, it also makes them healthier and aids in maintaining the balance of hormones in a woman�’s body. Breast massage is also a great way for a man to give pleasure, healing, and intimacy to his partner. The breasts are the seat of a woman’s sexuality and need to be loved and honored before any other part of her body will open up to you.
Breast massage can be tricky because breast tissues are quite delicate. However, if done properly and with exerting only moderate pressure, massaging the breasts is perfectly safe. The procedure is also quite simple. Read more
Dr. Pam Spurr describes six positions for better sex play, beginning with “The Swan.”
The “swan” is a great way to stimulate your partner’s penis and testicles when you’ve been roaming around his other erogenous zones. Imagine your thumb and fingers coming together in the shape of the old-fashioned shadow puppet — the “swan.” This is great for gently clasping the testicles between the beak-like shape formed by your fingers. Gently pull them a little. Now open your fingers up again and swirl them around his inner thighs. Then stop and stroke his perineum. Read more