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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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7 Sex Positions That Help Men Last Longer

One reason that women do not have orgasms from sexual intercourse is that their partners don’t last long enough. These seen sex positions can help with thatt although one is more a technique than a position.

Ever find yourself in the heat of the moment… and then things are over WAY too soon? Endurance is no laughing matter, and it’s something that can create a mess of even the best planned nights.

But how can we help our date to last longer? Sex positions that create relatively shallow penetration are quite helpful in having him last longer before orgasm since deep thrusting (like what you do in doggy style) often makes guys come a lot earlier than desired. Read more

6 Tips for Men to Last Longer in Bed

Premature EjaculationPremature ejaculation is a problem that many, if not most, men experience at some time. Even if when it’s not a chronic problem, it can happen with a new partner or after a dry spell. Premature ejaculation makes sex less enjoyable for both you and your partner. She cannot have an orgasm if you’re a “minute man,” and you don’t get to enjoy having your penis inside her vagina for very long. These six easy tips can help men last longer in bed. You don’t have to learn anything, or practice. You can use them tonight if you get lucky. Continue reading

Sex Positions Ranked by How Long He Can Last

Sometimes you want long, slow sex, and other times you just want to get it over with. Choosing the right sex position can help slow things down or speed them up – depending on your mood, according to sex researchers.

Sometimes you just want to speed through sex so you don’t miss a single second of the latest episode of KUWTK. (Hey, no judgment.) But other times, it’s nice to pop on some slow jamz and take things nice and slow (cue the Marvin), making things last all night—or at least as long as he can hold back. Read more

3 Ways to Guarantee All-Night Sex

Men can have longer-lasting, better sex with these three tips.

Don’t panic

If you’re having problems with longevity in the sack, forget pills or “natural” remedies, as they’ll never help, says Dr Keith Hopcroft. “Also, try to keep cool about the situation. It usually improves with time, and ‘performance anxiety’ just makes matters worse.” Try these three techniques to help you go the distance: Read more

Which Sex Positions Help Prevent Premature Ejaculation?

woman-and-sleeping-manControl is the key when you want to last longer in bed. Being in control allows you to slow things down a bit when you need to cool down. Knowing which sex positions provide the most and least stimulation will allow you to vary your sexual repertoire so you can treat yourself and your partner to a variety of moves. What’s great about this is that you use the best sex positions to delay ejaculation while at the same time you learn to be a more sophisticated lover. Continue reading

5 Ways to Last Longer in Bed

Blow your woman’s mind tonight by using one of these five easy techniques to make sex last even longer!

Better sex tonight

The one thing that everyone seems to want more of is sex. So once you’ve done the hard work of setting the scene, getting her in the mood and making sure you’re wearing your best pants, why not make the actual event something to savour, rather than a time trial?

Try one of these techniques tonight, taken from the new Men’s Health Big Book of Sex, and prepare to maximise pleasure for you and your partner. Read more

For more on this topic, see my post 3 Easy Ways to Delay Ejaculation.

The Best Sex Position for Ejaculatory Control

Premature ejaculation is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. There are numerous reasons why a man ejaculates too quickly. Some are stress-related, some are mental, and some can be physical. When there is to much friction, or continual thrusting, or a great deal of mutual movement, a man’s ejaculation can be too quick, for both partners. To delay premature ejaculation, a man needs to avoid some sexual positions completely. Furthermore, there are two sex position that can be used that are guaranteed to avoid premature ejaculation.

Two Sex Positions to Avoid

The missionary sex position (man-on-top) and all its variations should be avoided. These are quite intimate positions and leave most of the work to the man. If the man has a problem in finishing too quickly, these positions will not help. Continue reading

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