About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Mind-Blowing Doggy-Style Positions

Spice up doggy-style tonight with one of these mind=blowing variations.

#1 Tight-Legged

Getting into the typical doggy stance, have your girl keep her legs closed and open yours around them. As well, get her to arch her back and lean on her hands rather than lean down and rest on her elbows on the bed (or whatever surface you happen to be on). To help her maintain that stance, wrap your hand around her hair and give it an occasional tug while you’re having sex.

In addition to hair-pulling, you can rub her spine lightly and even hug her waist while you penetrate her. Legs closed is an interesting position because it also gives the female partner some control over a position that is sometimes considered to be a very submissive position for women. Read more

The Easy Move That Makes Doggy-Style Even Better

Use this sex tip to make doggy-style position even better.

This week’s tip comes courtesy of an article called “Cosmo’s 20 Favorite Sex Tips Ever” from 2002, a primitive time when humans may — or may not — have known how to have good sex.

The Tip: “Pillow Power
Great sex is all about angles — the angle of his erection and your pelvis determine exactly what hot spots he’ll hit and how tightly he’ll feel gripped. Read more

How to Flip a Woman Over for Doggy Style

Kat George offers eight (much-needed) tips on how to flip a woman over for doggy style without ruining the moment.

I’m not sure if guys know this or not, but flipping a girl over mid-sex is a fraught act. Guys never seem to get the timing or the etiquette quite right, so that the disappointing anti-climax of many sex stories I hear from my female friends ends with, “And then he just flipped me over!” Cue resounding sigh and understanding femme-camaraderie head nodding.

In my experience, timing is the biggest problem, and here comes my first piece of advice to any dude who wants to do it from behind: be sure you don’t flip a girl over for doggy when she’s already on the yellow brick road to orgasm, especially if all you’re planning on doing is pounding her from behind and coming in 30 seconds. Read more

How to Give Your Woman an Orgasm During Intercourse

cowgirlIf your woman isn’t as eager for sex as you’d like her to be (or not interested at all), it’s probably because she isn’t getting much enjoyment from it. It’s human nature to want more of what we like and less of what we don’t. If your partner isn’t sick, injured, or cheating on you, the reason she doesn’t want to have sex more often is because she doesn’t enjoy it. Period.

Surveys reveal that only about 30 percent of women have orgasms with intercourse. Female sexual pleasure mostly associates with her clitoris and G spot. Women often don’t have orgasm with intercourse because some sex positions don’t provide enough stimulation of these pleasure spots. Here are some positions and techniques that do provide the stimulation your woman needs to have an orgasm with intercourse. Continue reading

Instant Upgrade: Get New Thrills out of Old Sex Positions

Women’ Health asked sex experts and real women to share their proven strategies for getting new thrills out of five of the sex positions you know and love – missionary, woman on top, hands and knees, side by side, and standing up.

It’s so easy to get lazy in bed. When the mood strikes, why contort like a Cirque du Soleil acrobat when 1) the fact that you’re already having satisfying sex is more than most people accomplish and 2) a simple you’re-on-top-tonight position can get the job done fine? But like anything easy — an energy bar for lunch, the treadmill at the gym, shopping on Bluefly.com — before long, you feel like you’re missing out on the really fun stuff. So every once in a while (seriously, even just once a month) live it up a little. For the best way to do that naked, we asked experts and real women to share their proven strategies for getting new thrills out of those same old positions you know and love. Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Many women prefer to start small with anal, but big is quite enjoyable.
  • Dorian: Would 4.5/4.25 be ideal or enough for good anal? As anal is more tight I guess that the ideal penis size...
  • Alle P: Popping the penis (tip #2) is something my husband loves to do even if I’m not deepthroating but it...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: This is an excellent article, but you do need to actually read it and watch the video, not just...
  • Mike: What a bunch of crap and a waste of time who ever wrote this doesn’t explain or give any of the tips they...
  • Mixxxer: You nailed it! Exploring sex positions and allowing your partner to do it is a sense of intimate sexual...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: That is definitely on the small side.
  • Fox: Thanks. Would 4.25/4.5 inches be just too small/”is in yet?” for most women even with positions for...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: A woman should be able to feel five inches or more. Positions help, but it depends on the woman.