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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How to Deep Throat Without Gagging

Couple in BedDeep throat is a form of oral sex in which the entire length of an erect penis is taken deep into the mouth, where it often enters the throat. While this feels great to a man, many women are put off performing deep throat because of one fear – gagging. They are convinced that they will vomit, or even worse, actually choke.The main thing you must learn if you want to be able to give your man deep throat is to suppress the gag reflex so that you can comfortably take your his penis into the back of your throat. Once you know how to suppress your gag reflex, deep throat will be just as easy as giving regular fellatio. Continue reading

How to Deep Throat

This video is a decent introduction to deep throating. For more information, check out my post Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do it.

How to Deep Throat a Really Long Penis

Satisfied CoupleSo, you’ve learned to deep throat a penis, and maybe even mastered some advanced techniques. You consider yourself quite the deep throat queen. Then you meet a new man, one thing leads to another, and you wind up in bed together. Once the boxers come off, you can’t help but notice something about your new lover: he has a long penis – a really long penis. It’s at least an inch or two longer than the longest penis you’ve ever deep throated before, and at that time you thought you’d swallowed as much as you possibly could. Continue reading

Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?

IrrumatioIrrumatio is actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner. A distinction was once made between irrumatio and fellatio based on who is actively moving. Irrumatio meant to thrust the penis into the partner’s mouth; fellatio meant to move the head and mouth up-and-down around the penis, but this distinction has almost completely vanished in modern English. Continue reading

8 Fellatio Tricks That Drive Men Wild

Standing-FellatioEvery man loves receiving fellatio from his woman, and your man is no exception. It is a great way to give him pleasure, regardless of whether it is for foreplay, after play, or the main event. Social messages about fellatio suggest that men love it so much that they don’t care about technique. In reality, consummate skill is required to suck a man’s penis and provide him with the highest degree of pleasure possible. While practice makes perfect, here are eight tricks you can use to improve your fellatio technique. Continue reading

5 Advanced Fellatio Techniques

Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man. It is a great way to give pleasure, regardless of whether it is for foreplay, after play, or the main event. Giving good fellatio is much more complex than simply bobbing one’s head up and down. Like all other sexual skills, it must be learned. Once you get the basics, and are comfortable and experienced with them, try these fice advanced fellatio techniques to increase his pleasure. Continue reading

The 3 Best Positions for MFM Threesomes

MFM ThreesomeBeing with two men at once is many women’s biggest fantasy, but, once you’ve found two men, what’s the best way to have sex so that everyone ends up happy and satisfied? My recommendations are based on two assumptions: 1) you want to experience double penetration, and 2) one or both of the men are so insecure that even accidentally touching another man’s penis would completely ruin their evening. The following three positions allow you to be penetrated in two orifices at once while keeping physical contact between the two men at a minimum. Continue reading

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