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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Two Cunnilingus Techniques for More Pleasure

CunnilingusClitoral stimulation by itself can usually bring a woman to orgasm. Cunnilingus, oral sex on a female, is the most effective way to stimulate the clitoris. That explains why more women can climax through oral sex than through intercourse. In addition to clitoral stimulation, however, it is also worth trying these two unique cunnilingus techniques, which might be unusual, but are quite effective for giving a woman more pleasure during oral sex. Continue reading

5 Mistakes Men Make When Performing Cunnilingus

Unhappy womanCunnilingus is something almost every woman loves, but it isn’t something every man is good at. Bad oral sex is worse than none at all. Since men don’t have a vagina, it’s understandable that they are sometimes confused about what feels good and what doesn’t.  Cunnilingus is hard enough to get right as it is, so don’t ruin it by making one of these oral sex blunders. Are you making one of these crucial cunnilingus mistakes? Continue reading

3 Cunnilingus Tips Guaranteed to Make Her Orgasm Tonight

WomanA lot of women have difficulties receiving pleasure and climaxing from someone else’s touch, so you need to be able to find a surefire way to give her the kind of pleasure that you are looking to give. The only way to make that happen is with oral sex. Twice as many women can reach orgasm from cunnilingus as can from intercourse. However, you need to perform oral sex on a woman the right way. These three cunnilingus tips are guaranteed to bring her to an orgasm tonight. Continue reading

Is Cunnilingus an Acquired Taste?

Three young men reveal what they really think about performing cunnilingus.

Curious how guys’ attitudes about cunnilingus change over time, Cosmopolitan.com asked 15 guys ages 19, 23, and 28 how they feel about going down on women.​ Here’s what they said.

1. What do you call going down on a girl? Eating her out? Cunnilingus? Read more

8 Things Men Think While Going Down on a Woman

Clint Carter reveals what men think while going down on a woman.

The high-functioning part of a man’s brain basically shuts down the minute your pants come off. It’s not that we don’t think; our thoughts just become, well, simple. Naked woman. Must touch.

But that changes when we go down on you because, suddenly, we have a goal. We need a strategy. And we need to silence the me, me, me part of our brains long enough to make you feel totally happy with your decision to get into bed with us. In that moment, here’s what your guy is likely to be thinking. Read more

10 Things Every Man Should Be Able to Do with His Tongue

How talented in your tongue? Danielle N. Page says every man’s tongue should be able to do ten things.

By the time you’re a grown ass man, you’ve probably (hopefully) nailed the basic functions that fall under the category of using your mouth to please a woman. You fancy yourself an excellent kisser, give oral like a self-proclaimed pro and even use your tongue to probe obvious areas like the nipple or clit.

But are you really using your mouth to its full potential when you’re getting down and dirty? We asked a few experts to weigh in on the mouth-centric acts that all men should be readily practicing between the sheets. Read on for what they had to say about putting the moves where your mouth is. Read more

Giving a Woman Oral Sex

Ian Kerner gives men a no-nonsense guide to going down on their women.

How often do you go down on your partner before intercourse?
And intercourse aside, how often do you engage in oral sex just for the sake of… oral sex?

If the numbers are low, I have to say: You and are your partner are missing out. I mean, I know. It can be near-impossible to resist diving in to sexy time penis first. But an intense session of cunnilingus can definitely add something to your intimate life that neither of you are getting from the same old in-and-out.  Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
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