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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How to Lick Her Vagina to Make Her Orgasm Every Time

Sex coach Nick Hardwick reveals how to lick your woman’s vagina so that she orgasms every time.

You probably already know that eating pussy is the easiest way to make a woman orgasm. You might have also heard that guys who master this skill get much hotter sex, and a lot more often.

It’s one of the easiest ways to make her want sex as much as (if not more than) you.

The problem is most guys have no clue how to go down and perform oral sex on a woman. Read more

8 Tips to Give Her Cunnilingus Like a Pro

These eight cunnilingus techniques will get a woman off every time, says Eli Walton.

There is no more surefire way to make a woman come than going down on her like a pro. Use these 8 oral sex techniques to get her there every time! Read more

5 Cunnilingus Tips for Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Couple in BedCunnilingus has the potential to give women highly satisfying orgasms if performed well. Many women find that they can climax more easily from cunnilingus than sexual intercourse. To learn how to perform cunnilingus takes some practice, but anyone can become skilled in the art of oral satisfaction. Here are five oral sex techniques for mind-blowing orgasms.

1) Starting cunnilingus

To start cunnilingus, try the following: Lick your partner’s vaginal opening up to her clitoris. Then follow the outer edges of the vagina. Make sure you cover both sides. Going up and down each side this is a great way to start oral sex and get your partner relaxed for further pleasure. Continue reading

10 Cunnilingus Tips for Pleasuring a Woman

female-pleasureNobody knows what to do. You just close your eyes, you hope for the best. I really think they’re happy if you just make an effort. – Jerry Seinfeld

We all want to give women orgasms when we have sex with them, and cunnilingus is the best and fastest way to do that. However, just making an effort is not enough. It also takes a little knowledge. Here are ten cunnilingus tips to give a woman the best, most intense orgasms she ever had: Continue reading

5 Cunnilingus Positions to Drive Her Crazy

CunnilingusThere is no doubt that the most widely-used cunnilingus position is the one in which the woman lies on her back with her legs open so that her partner can kneel between them, spread open her folds, and lick her vulva and clitoris. This classic position allows easy access to the clitoris, as well as the ability to insert fingers into the vagina. However, just because something is good, doesn’t mean it should be the only item on the menu. If the traditional “missionary” position is the only position you use to give or receive oral sex, you are missing out unique sensations. Try these five positions to spice up your cunnilingus experience. Continue reading

A Cougar’s Best Advice on Oral Sex

In this video, a cougar gives men her best advice about oral sex.

5 Oral Sex Moves You’ve Never Tried

If you’ve mastered Oral 101, these five moves will take you to the next level

Overview

For her, oral could mean the difference between orgasmic bliss and a ho-hum time in the sack. In fact, most women need a variety of stimulation, including oral, in order to orgasm, research from the Kinsey Institute shows. If you’ve already mastered the basics—taking your time, varying your pressure and speed, and resisting the urge to go straight for her lady parts with a little teasing—then add these five advanced moves to your repertoire. Who knows? She might be impressed enough to return the favor. Read more

Recent Comments

  • ken: Dear Fran, I am a mature,married,70 yr. old man who just love giving safe and sane,maintainance spankings to...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Many women prefer to start small with anal, but big is quite enjoyable.
  • Dorian: Would 4.5/4.25 be ideal or enough for good anal? As anal is more tight I guess that the ideal penis size...
  • Alle P: Popping the penis (tip #2) is something my husband loves to do even if I’m not deepthroating but it...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: This is an excellent article, but you do need to actually read it and watch the video, not just...
  • Mike: What a bunch of crap and a waste of time who ever wrote this doesn’t explain or give any of the tips they...
  • Mixxxer: You nailed it! Exploring sex positions and allowing your partner to do it is a sense of intimate sexual...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: That is definitely on the small side.
  • Fox: Thanks. Would 4.25/4.5 inches be just too small/”is in yet?” for most women even with positions for...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: A woman should be able to feel five inches or more. Positions help, but it depends on the woman.