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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Cunnilingus Tips for Pleasuring a Woman

female-pleasureNobody knows what to do. You just close your eyes, you hope for the best. I really think they’re happy if you just make an effort. – Jerry Seinfeld

We all want to give women orgasms when we have sex with them, and cunnilingus is the best and fastest way to do that. However, just making an effort is not enough. It also takes a little knowledge. Here are ten cunnilingus tips to give a woman the best, most intense orgasms she ever had: Continue reading

5 Cunnilingus Positions to Drive Her Crazy

CunnilingusThere is no doubt that the most widely-used cunnilingus position is the one in which the woman lies on her back with her legs open so that her partner can kneel between them, spread open her folds, and lick her vulva and clitoris. This classic position allows easy access to the clitoris, as well as the ability to insert fingers into the vagina. However, just because something is good, doesn’t mean it should be the only item on the menu. If the traditional “missionary” position is the only position you use to give or receive oral sex, you are missing out unique sensations. Try these five positions to spice up your cunnilingus experience. Continue reading

A Cougar’s Best Advice on Oral Sex

In this video, a cougar gives men her best advice about oral sex.

10 Cunnilingus Tips and Tricks

These ten cunnilingus tips and tricks will allow any man to satisfy his woman orally, says Amy Richardson.

Sex surveys show that men receive fellatio more often than women receive cunnilingus. One reason for that could be is that some men are not that confident about their ability to please a woman orally. Cunnilingus isn’t rocket science, but it isn’ to t completely instinctive either. These ten cunnilingus tips and tricks will allow any man to go down on a woman like he’s been there before and knows what he’s doing. Read more

5 Oral Sex Moves You’ve Never Tried

If you’ve mastered Oral 101, these five moves will take you to the next level

Overview

For her, oral could mean the difference between orgasmic bliss and a ho-hum time in the sack. In fact, most women need a variety of stimulation, including oral, in order to orgasm, research from the Kinsey Institute shows. If you’ve already mastered the basics—taking your time, varying your pressure and speed, and resisting the urge to go straight for her lady parts with a little teasing—then add these five advanced moves to your repertoire. Who knows? She might be impressed enough to return the favor. Read more

Oral Sex Tips for Men

Glamazon Tyomi gives men a few quick tips on how to become great at the performance of cunnilingus.

5 Cunnilingus Tips for Mind-Blowing Orgasms

If you want to bring a woman to orgasm, oral sex is more likely to be successful than intercourse, says Amy Richardson. She gives five cunnilingus tips to give a woman mind-blowing orgasms.

Cunnilingus has the potential to give women highly satisfying orgasms if performed well. Many women find that they can climax more easily from cunnilingus than sexual intercourse. To learn how to perform cunnilingus takes some practice, but anyone can become skilled in the art of oral satisfaction. Here are five oral sex techniques for mind-blowing orgasms. Read more

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