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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Cunnilingus Tips for Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Couple in BedCunnilingus has the potential to give women highly satisfying orgasms if performed well. Many women find that they can climax more easily from cunnilingus than sexual intercourse. To learn how to perform cunnilingus takes some practice, but anyone can become skilled in the art of oral satisfaction. Here are five oral sex techniques for mind-blowing orgasms.

1) Starting cunnilingus

To start cunnilingus, try the following: Lick your partner’s vaginal opening up to her clitoris. Then follow the outer edges of the vagina. Make sure you cover both sides. Going up and down each side this is a great way to start oral sex and get your partner relaxed for further pleasure. Continue reading

10 Cunnilingus Tips for Pleasuring a Woman

female-pleasureNobody knows what to do. You just close your eyes, you hope for the best. I really think they’re happy if you just make an effort. – Jerry Seinfeld

We all want to give women orgasms when we have sex with them, and cunnilingus is the best and fastest way to do that. However, just making an effort is not enough. It also takes a little knowledge. Here are ten cunnilingus tips to give a woman the best, most intense orgasms she ever had: Continue reading

5 Cunnilingus Positions to Drive Her Crazy

CunnilingusThere is no doubt that the most widely-used cunnilingus position is the one in which the woman lies on her back with her legs open so that her partner can kneel between them, spread open her folds, and lick her vulva and clitoris. This classic position allows easy access to the clitoris, as well as the ability to insert fingers into the vagina. However, just because something is good, doesn’t mean it should be the only item on the menu. If the traditional “missionary” position is the only position you use to give or receive oral sex, you are missing out unique sensations. Try these five positions to spice up your cunnilingus experience. Continue reading

A Cougar’s Best Advice on Oral Sex

In this video, a cougar gives men her best advice about oral sex.

5 Oral Sex Moves You’ve Never Tried

If you’ve mastered Oral 101, these five moves will take you to the next level

Overview

For her, oral could mean the difference between orgasmic bliss and a ho-hum time in the sack. In fact, most women need a variety of stimulation, including oral, in order to orgasm, research from the Kinsey Institute shows. If you’ve already mastered the basics—taking your time, varying your pressure and speed, and resisting the urge to go straight for her lady parts with a little teasing—then add these five advanced moves to your repertoire. Who knows? She might be impressed enough to return the favor. Read more

Oral Sex Tips for Men

Glamazon Tyomi gives men a few quick tips on how to become great at the performance of cunnilingus.

7 Easy Steps to the Best Oral Sex of Her Life

Want to drive her crazy down below? Men’s Fitness provides a detailed guide to going south will turn any man into an orgasm-inducing machine.

Ask any woman how she feels about receiving oral and she’ll probably tell you it feels good—but you should never settle for “good” when you could make her feel amazing. Would you go to a football game and only stay until half time? Would you fill up a pint of beer only mid-way? Of course not. So the same rule applies to going down on a woman: never half-ass it. Now truth be told, every chick has a different set of preferences, but if you stick to our step-by-step guide, you’ll likely give her the best oral of her life. Read on to find out how. Read more

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