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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Cunnilingus Techniques to Drive A Woman Wild

It’s no secret that many women love cunnilingus – a lot. A mouth and tongue kissing, sucking, and kissing their genitals is something that can make a woman crazy with pleasure. Here are five little-known cunnilingus techniques you can use to drive a woman wild.

1) Show that you are enjoying yourself. Many women aren’t comfortable receiving cunnilingus. Women can be very self-conscious about how they smell or taste and that it might be unpleasant for the man. The partner who is performing cunnilingus can help put a woman at ease by being complimentary and positive about her genitals. Use movements and make sounds to show that you are enjoying yourself. Show enthusiasm for what you are doing. This will help her relax and allow her to concentrate on her own pleasure, both keys to her enjoyment. Continue reading

Kama Sutra Cunnilingus Techniques

The Kama Sutra gives some serious insight into “licking of the rose petals,” i.e., pleasing your woman with your tongue.

The quivering kiss
“With delicate fingertips, pinch the arched lips of her house of love very slowly together, and kiss them as though you kissed her lower lip: this is Adhara-sphuritam”.

This is a rather strange technique, but if done correctly, it can be a good way to initiate cunnilingus. Pinch together the labia of your partner’s vagina to imitate lips, and gently kiss the region. Read more

5 Unique Ways to Go Down on Her

Many women prefer cunnilingus to intercourse because it’s easier for them to achieve orgasm. A woman you just helped achieved orgasm is a happy woman, and a happy woman is going to make sure that you’re a happy man, but you’ve got to  be creative and figure out some unique ways of going down on her.

While almost every woman will appreciate the classic cunnilingus positions, like riding your face and the muff dive, you can bring her to the point of ecstasy by doing things no other man has done, or took the time to do.

Think of it this way: The average cunnilingus positions are just that, average. Do you want to be remembered as the average guy in bed? I didn’t think so. Read on for some great ideas on unique ways to go down on her. Read more

How to Kiss a Woman's Vulva

Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, explains how to kiss a woman’s vulva and make it an experience to remember.

Never underestimate the power of first impressions, especially the impression of your lips against her vulva. This first kiss atop a woman’s vulva is often the most exquisite of all possible kisses and can literally take her breath away.

Approach the first kiss as an event, as though tasting the first sip of an expensive bottle of wine that you’ve been saving for that special occasion. Don’t just pop off the cork and start swigging: Let it breathe, sniff and savor the bouquet, admire the body, note the complexion and tone, and then, finally, take that much-anticipated first sip. Allow yourself to appreciate the full experience. Read more

The Low-Down on Cunnilingus

Eight tips on the basics… as long as you forget what you’ve seen in porn videos. More men need to pay attention to the fifth tip.

Guys, forget about the porn you’ve seen. It’s done more harm than good as far as oral pleasure’s concerned. Read up on these basics and she’ll erect shrines to your loving prowess. Read more

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