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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Better Cunnilingus: How to Tongue Her Vagina

This is a technique that your partner may not have had done to her before, so big bonus points to you when you do it.

When giving their lovers oral sex, many women stick to licking the clitoris only. They know that licking the clitoris can produce an intense orgasm, so they stay with the tried and true. However, if you’re feeling a bit naughty and want your lover to have a really mind-blowing orgasm, tonguing her vagina can take oral sex to the next level. Tongue thrusting is an oral sex technique that your lover may never have had used on her, so that makes it exciting all by itself. Read more

Better Cunnilingus: 5 Clitoral Stimulation Techniques That Drive Women Crazy

Many women find cunnilingus to be the most satisfying sexual act. Indeed, a great number of women report that oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm.  The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations because the tongue can manipulate the vagina and the clitoris in a variety of ways. Cunnilingus can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and usually involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Here are five direct clitoral stimulation techniques to try: Continue reading

6 Cunnilingus Techniques to Make a Woman Scream with Pleasure

Do you know that cunnilingus is the best sexual activity to make a woman orgasm? More than 8o percent of women regularly achieve orgasm from cunnilingus when compared to only 30 percent of them from sexual intercourse. It’s no wonder that many women prefer oral sex to penetration. If you want to make your woman scream with pleasure, you need to master cunnilingus. To do this, you need to know what the best cunnilingus techniques are. Here are six great cunnilingus techniques to make a woman orgasm like crazy. Continue reading

The Kivin Method: Guaranteed Orgasm for Women

The Kivin Method, also known as “Tahitian cunnilingus,” is an amazing oral sex technique that will delight any woman. It’s a method that can give a woman a rapid, intense orgasm. Best of all, it’s easy to learn and do. No tongue gymnastics are required. Continue reading

The 10 Worst Cunnilingus Mistakes

Performing good cunnilingus on a woman is more than just placing your tongue on her clitoris and stimulating the surroundings. You need to understand the art of cunnilingus so as to avoid embarrassing and painful mistakes in the bedroom with your lover.

  1. Making like a gynecologist
  2. Sure, you’re curious about what a pussy looks like up close. Go ahead and take a good look. But don’t spread her labia open so wide that she feels like she’s getting her annual pelvic exam at the gynecologist. Just use your fingertips to gently hold back her lips and slip your tongue in there.

  3. The head shake
  4. Don’t emulate the exaggerated oral techniques in porn movies, especially that move where the guy sticks his tongue straight out and instead of licking, shakes his whole head side to side between the woman’s legs till his ears slap against her thighs. It looks dumb even on camera and it doesn’t work in real life.

  5. Blowing air up her coochie
  6. Do not form a seal around her vagina with your lips and blow into it. What, do you think she’s a blow-up doll? Blowing lightly or breathing on and around the pussy is hot, but blowing air into the vagina is just dangerous and can lead to serious queefing (pussy farts). Read more

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