About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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17 Ways to Intensify Cowgirl Pleasure

This video gives women seventeen ways to intensify pleasure in the woman-on-top sex position.

15 Things Men Think When Women Are on Top

Frank Kobola reveals what goes through a man’s mind when a woman gets on top.

1. Please tell me you’re getting on top. I really can’t handle pumping away anymore. My butt muscles are so tight that I don’t think I’ll ever be able to poop again.

2. Don’t break my reapenis. You’ve pretty much got complete control here. Don’t roll off the bed or slam down on it or something. Please.  Read more

Finding a Rhythm That Works When She’s “on Top”

Though many women agree there’s no better sexual position for reaching orgasm than woman-on-top, being in the “on top” position during sex can be an intimidating experience for women. Although it’s commonly assumed that the person in the dominant position has more control over the situation, and is therefore less vulnerable, this is not often the case from an emotional perspective. They may be controlling the movements, but they are also putting their bodies and their sexual prowess on display. Rose Rivera, founder of SpeakSexy.org, has some tips to calm her down and help find her own rhythm. Here’s one tip:

Use Background Music – One of the easiest ways to relax into a sexual situation is to play your favorite sensual tunes in the background. Not only will music give her a little “mind escape” since she can close her eyes and let her imagination drift – very helpful is she is really nervous – but it will provide her with a rhythm. She can further play with this idea by picking music of varying tempos to see which ones “feel” the best to her, and to her partner. Read more

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