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Sex and One-Night Stands

Thursday, April 24th, 2014

Funny Girl Sex Guide dishes out about one-night stands.

The 5 Best Things About Having a Friend with Benefits

Sunday, April 13th, 2014

A friend-with-benefits relationship doesn’t have to be complicated and messy, says D.A. Wolf..

Do you believe that “friends with benefits” is purely no-strings sex? Do you consider it a phase that some women go through when they’re young, purposely avoiding a committed relationship?

Some of us believe that friends with benefits can be mutually enjoyable and perfectly suited to our needs – not just when we’re very young, and not as a matter of explicitly avoiding commitment. Read more

Why You Forget Your Hook-up’s Name After Sex

Tuesday, April 8th, 2014

If you forget your hook-up’s name after sex, you may be suffering from transient global amnesia – which means it’s not your fault!

So, you met a cute guy or girl at a bar and things went well enough that you woke up next to this stranger the following morning, only to realize you forgot their name. Besides drinking, is there a scientific explanation on why you don’t remember a hookup’s name? Are you just really insensitive and shallow because you were more focused on bringing this person back to your place instead getting to know them? Or, is your brain tricking you? The answer could be the latter. Read more

6 Rules for Friends with Benefits Relationships

Thursday, March 20th, 2014

Funny Girl Sex Guide discusses sir Rules for participating in a ‘rriends with benefits relationship.

12 Things Not to Do During a One-Night Stand

Saturday, February 8th, 2014

Caroline Perkins gives men and women some friendly (and funny) advice about what not to ddo during a one-night stand.

I promise I have never once done any of these things.

  1. So you just got back to David’s/Tanya’s/Jamiroquai’s apartment.
  2. Do not go back on your sober promise to not hook up with anyone, and sloppily shave your legs and vagina in the bathroom at 3 am. Read more

Are You Trapped in the One-Night Stand Cycle?

Tuesday, January 14th, 2014

Rick Clemons asks if one-night stands keeping you from a real connection?

We’ve all had the regrettable one night stand. But can you picture being stuck in a never-ending one? That’s just hell.

Imagine: You. A drunken night. Not being able to find your purse or wallet, not being able to get rid of whoever it is that’s laying half naked, sound asleep in bed next to you. That spiraling madness is a reality for the characters in Stuck, a quirky, weird, yet surprisingly realistic one-night-stand-gone-wrong new romantic comedy by Stuart Acher. It made me pause and wonder, “What the hell would I do if this were my reality?Read more

5 Rules for Hosting a Booty Call

Saturday, January 11th, 2014

If your friend with benefits is paying you a visit, Samantha Irby gives five rules for hosting a booty call.

… So you’re not ready for another relationship because you want to take some time to process this last one (smart) but would like the opportunity to road test a handful of new options (awesome) or you never had a relationship in the first goddamned place and just want to get busy with someone you would never introduce your brunch circle to (who are you, me!?) and you want to get your cute little face ready but don’t know how?

Well neither do I because I’m dumb, but here is how I wing that unnecessarily complicated shit: Read more

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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)
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