About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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6 Sex Moves that Will Ruin Your Chances for a Second Lay

Things that a long-term partner might allow you to do in bed because she wants to please you are not always a good idea to try with a new woman. These six sex moves could ruin your chances for a return engagement.

Gettin’ down with someone new for the first time is exciting and nervewracking. There are so many decisions to make! Lights on or lights off? Do you get on top, or do you just park yourself on the bottom and hope for the best? Will it be evident that it’s been a minute? The thing about it, is that t once you do it, it really is like riding a bike. You never really forget, you just have to get back on the horse. Hooking up with a new person for the first time can be totally awesome. Sure, there are awkward moments as you figure out each other’s moves and tastes, but the sexual chemistry carries you through. But there are those other times when your new paramour’s behavior in the bedroom is inexcusable. We all have our limits. Dudes, take heed. Here are some sex dealbreakers that will definitely not get you another lay. Read more

Sex and One-Night Stands

Funny Girl Sex Guide dishes out about one-night stands.

The 5 Best Things About Having a Friend with Benefits

A friend-with-benefits relationship doesn’t have to be complicated and messy, says D.A. Wolf..

Do you believe that “friends with benefits” is purely no-strings sex? Do you consider it a phase that some women go through when they’re young, purposely avoiding a committed relationship?

Some of us believe that friends with benefits can be mutually enjoyable and perfectly suited to our needs – not just when we’re very young, and not as a matter of explicitly avoiding commitment. Read more

Why You Forget Your Hook-up’s Name After Sex

If you forget your hook-up’s name after sex, you may be suffering from transient global amnesia – which means it’s not your fault!

So, you met a cute guy or girl at a bar and things went well enough that you woke up next to this stranger the following morning, only to realize you forgot their name. Besides drinking, is there a scientific explanation on why you don’t remember a hookup’s name? Are you just really insensitive and shallow because you were more focused on bringing this person back to your place instead getting to know them? Or, is your brain tricking you? The answer could be the latter. Read more

6 Rules for Friends with Benefits Relationships

Funny Girl Sex Guide discusses sir Rules for participating in a ‘rriends with benefits relationship.

12 Things Not to Do During a One-Night Stand

Caroline Perkins gives men and women some friendly (and funny) advice about what not to ddo during a one-night stand.

I promise I have never once done any of these things.

  1. So you just got back to David’s/Tanya’s/Jamiroquai’s apartment.
  2. Do not go back on your sober promise to not hook up with anyone, and sloppily shave your legs and vagina in the bathroom at 3 am. Read more

Are You Trapped in the One-Night Stand Cycle?

Rick Clemons asks if one-night stands keeping you from a real connection?

We’ve all had the regrettable one night stand. But can you picture being stuck in a never-ending one? That’s just hell.

Imagine: You. A drunken night. Not being able to find your purse or wallet, not being able to get rid of whoever it is that’s laying half naked, sound asleep in bed next to you. That spiraling madness is a reality for the characters in Stuck, a quirky, weird, yet surprisingly realistic one-night-stand-gone-wrong new romantic comedy by Stuart Acher. It made me pause and wonder, “What the hell would I do if this were my reality?Read more

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