Discover the surprising ways your brain (and a woman’s hips) play a role in casual sex encounters.
It’s a familiar scene: a thriving nightlife, a club or maybe a wine bar where glasses are clinking and singles are mingling before drifting off into the shadows — two by two. It’s not the perfect picture of romance, but when you’re caught up in the moment, a warm body feels like a fair substitute for love, right?
Hooking up is just a reality of the dating scene. But since when did the hookup scene become the place to find love? While you may think you’re just living the carefree single life, your brain is influencing your decisions more than you might want to admit. Read more
Things that a long-term partner might allow you to do in bed because she wants to please you are not always a good idea to try with a new woman. These six sex moves could ruin your chances for a return engagement.
Gettin’ down with someone new for the first time is exciting and nervewracking. There are so many decisions to make! Lights on or lights off? Do you get on top, or do you just park yourself on the bottom and hope for the best? Will it be evident that it’s been a minute? The thing about it, is that t once you do it, it really is like riding a bike. You never really forget, you just have to get back on the horse. Hooking up with a new person for the first time can be totally awesome. Sure, there are awkward moments as you figure out each other’s moves and tastes, but the sexual chemistry carries you through. But there are those other times when your new paramour’s behavior in the bedroom is inexcusable. We all have our limits. Dudes, take heed. Here are some sex dealbreakers that will definitely not get you another lay. Read more
A friend-with-benefits relationship doesn’t have to be complicated and messy, says D.A. Wolf..
Do you believe that “friends with benefits” is purely no-strings sex? Do you consider it a phase that some women go through when they’re young, purposely avoiding a committed relationship?
Some of us believe that friends with benefits can be mutually enjoyable and perfectly suited to our needs – not just when we’re very young, and not as a matter of explicitly avoiding commitment. Read more
If you forget your hook-up’s name after sex, you may be suffering from transient global amnesia – which means it’s not your fault!
So, you met a cute guy or girl at a bar and things went well enough that you woke up next to this stranger the following morning, only to realize you forgot their name. Besides drinking, is there a scientific explanation on why you don’t remember a hookup’s name? Are you just really insensitive and shallow because you were more focused on bringing this person back to your place instead getting to know them? Or, is your brain tricking you? The answer could be the latter. Read more
Funny Girl Sex Guide discusses sir Rules for participating in a ‘rriends with benefits relationship.
Caroline Perkins gives men and women some friendly (and funny) advice about what not to ddo during a one-night stand.
I promise I have never once done any of these things.
- So you just got back to David’s/Tanya’s/Jamiroquai’s apartment.
- Do not go back on your sober promise to not hook up with anyone, and sloppily shave your legs and vagina in the bathroom at 3 am. Read more