About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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15 Things Women Want Men to Know About Breasts

You may love breasts, but how much do you really know about them if you don’t have a pair of your own? Hannah Smothers reveals the fifteen things that women want men to know about breasts.

That famous line from a book by a man (Tale of Two Cities) about how “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times,” or whatever is, in my opinion, actually about having boobs. There are such wonderful benefits to having a pair of playthings affixed to your chest. But then there are the dark moments (PERIODS). Either way, having boobies is like being part of a fun, exclusive club and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Read more

10 Reasons Straight Women Check Out Other Women’s Breasts

It isn’t just straight men who like to check out women’s breasts. Straight women do too, but why.?

If one rule holds true about human sexuality, it’s that everyone goes hogwild for boobs — big bazoongas, itty bitty titties, sideboob, underboob, nip slips, boob tricks, cleavage! Tits, tits, tits! chants the human race. Although we’ve known this forever because DUH, a groundbreaking new study published in the journal Sex Roles confirms once and for all that all human creatures love to ogle boobs. After hooking people up to eye censors and forcing them to look at boobie pics (the horror!), researchers discovered that “both sexes fixed their gaze more on women’s chests and waists and less on faces.” Yep, science has officially proven that it’s not just straight dudes who love to stare at boobs; gay men and straight women are also guilty of ignoring the “my eyes are up here” rule. We love to look tits, too. Why, you ask? Here are some reasons we might get caught checking out other women’s boobs. Read more

9 Simple Steps to Satisfy Your Woman’s Breasts

Erin Stevens gives men a fool-proof guide to pleasing their woman’s breasts and up the ante in the bedroom for even hotter sex.

Ask any expert about a woman’s breasts and they’ll all tell you the same thing: men aren’t paying enough attention to them—at least when it comes to sex. “What I’m hearing from a lot of people is that men immediately go down south, because that’s where they get the most results,” says sexologist Dr. Stephen de Wit. “For a lot of women, breasts are an area of great pleasure, but it’s not an understood thing for men because we don’t have breasts—a lot of the information we learn is from the media and from porn.”

But fear not, guys. All hope isn’t lost. We’ve consulted the best experts in the biz to create a step-by-step guide to pleasuring her boobs in the bedroom. Both your lady—and her ladies—will be satisfied with these nine simple steps. Read more

Why Men REALLY Love Breasts

Two authors have dissected the emotional, biological, and cultural reasons behind the real reason men love breasts.

Two men have attempted to answer the age-old question, ‘why are men obsessed with breasts?’

Larry Young and Brian Alexander, who recently released The Chemistry Between Us: Love, Sex, and the Science of Attraction, have dissected the emotional, biological and cultural reasons behind the real reason men love breasts. Read more

10 Things Men Love about Breasts

If you’ve ever wondered why men are so fascinated with breasts, David M. Mathews reveals why your dynamic duo tops their list of favorite things.

As you are well-aware, men’s love affair with the female breast goes back centuries, perhaps to the beginning of time (before chomping on the apple, Adam may not have known the significance of Eve’s frontal accoutrements, but he knew what he liked). Guys go out of their way to get a glimpse of them at every opportunity, and spend obscene amounts of hard-earned cash just to watch nubile hotties bare their bounteous assets in seedy, sweaty, prurient palaces, ironically referred to as, “gentlemen’s clubs.” Such is our complete infatuation with your blessed bosom.

But why this udder devotion? And what specifically draws us to your mellifluous mammaries? Read on as I try to offer a little insight into mans’ magnificent obsession. Read more

10 Things Women Do with Their Breasts That Drive Men Crazy

Men love breasts, and they love them even more when they do tricks – sexy tricks. The Frisky has a slideshow of ten sexy boob moves  that drive men crazy.

Boobs, what are they good for? Absolutely everything! So, don’t let your ta-tas be all lazy, lyin’ around on your chest. Put ‘em to work for you! Whether your boobies are big, small, uneven, or heck, even singular, you can make them even more magical by making them do tricks—sexy tricks. After you read these 10 suggestions you’ll see, when it comes to teasin’ and pleasin’, it’s survival of the tittiest! Read more

6 Ways Your Breasts Can Increase Your Sexual Pleasure

Men love breasts. They love looking at them; they love touching them; they love everything about them. But what many women don’t realize is that their breasts can give them lots of satisfaction too. The truth is, your breasts play an important role in pleasing both of you. These six moves will help you double your pleasure and ensure they’re not left out of the fun.

Your breasts are not there just to enchant your lover; they are also a sex organ. When used appropriately they can enhance the pleasure of sex for you as well as your partner. Read the article below to discover some interesting ways through which you and your partner can enjoy your breasts during lovemaking.

Cuddle up

If you pay attention to your breasts, you can use them to enhance your sexual pleasure. According to experts, when your partner caresses your breasts, your brain releases a chemical called oxytocin in your bloodstream. This oxytocin works as a love hormone. It is also triggered by hugging and orgasm. Oxytocin is also known to strengthen the bonding feeling between you and your partner. To get more out of cuddling, press your breasts into his chest or pull him towards you so that so that your nipple brushes against his chest, this will give you a delightful sensation. Read more

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