About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Breast and Nipple Play Tips

One way to spice up foreplay is with more breast play. Try these ten breast and nipple play tips.

A woman’s breasts are one of her primary erogenous zones. They are so erotically sensitive, in fact, that some women can even achieve orgasm from breast and nipple stimulation alone! These ten tips for breast and nipple play may not trigger a nipple orgasm, but even if they don’t, they will be sexy and fun for both you and your lover. Read more

How to Touch a Woman’s Breasts on a Date

Want to know how to touch a woman’s breasts and make her love it when you’re all alone and cozying up to her? This guide reveals how to touch a woman’s breasts on a date the easy and safe way!

Making out is confusing, but it can be so much fun if you really know how to do it well.

In the first part of this guide on how to make out with a girl, I’ve told you about how to warm her up and kiss her and make her love it.

And you really should read that before going ahead and figuring out how to touch a woman’s breasts. Read more

5 Breast Fondling Techniques

A woman’s breasts are an erotic hot spot. These five breast fondling techniques will stoke the fires of her arousal.

A woman’s breasts are a symbol of her femininity, and are often considered her second most erogenous zone, after the genitals. For the majority of women, their breasts are a source of great sexual pleasure. Not only that, but breast stimulation also increases vaginal lubrication. Even so, women do vary in how much they enjoy breast play. Although, most women find these five breast fondling techniques to be quite pleasurable, with a new lover, starting out slowly and gently to gauge her reaction is the best approach. Read more

3 Weird Ways to Pleasure Her Breasts

Carolyn Kylstra reveals three ways that men can pleasure their partner’s breasts they may not have thought of.

Breast-men, rejoice! Researchers recently found that when you stimulate a woman’s nipples, the same area of her brain lights up as when you stimulate her bliss-button down below. Ain’t science amazing?

But here’s the thing. Twiddling her nips like they’re old-school radio dials just isn’t going to cut it. To that end, the editors of CFG: Cosmo For Guys have come up with this handy little list of three, ah, unusual ways that women want you to bring joy to their sweater puppies.

Maybe. Worth it? Ohhhh yes. Read more

15 Things Women Want Men to Know About Breasts

You may love breasts, but how much do you really know about them if you don’t have a pair of your own? Hannah Smothers reveals the fifteen things that women want men to know about breasts.

That famous line from a book by a man (Tale of Two Cities) about how “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times,” or whatever is, in my opinion, actually about having boobs. There are such wonderful benefits to having a pair of playthings affixed to your chest. But then there are the dark moments (PERIODS). Either way, having boobies is like being part of a fun, exclusive club and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Read more

My Lesbian Sex Ebook Has Been Published!

KissingDespite lesbians definitely being out of the closet, there are still not a lot of sex tip and sex advice for lesbians available. Apparently, women are supposed to automatically know how to make love to another woman, but that is just not the case. It’s true that a woman should be able to avoid some of the mistakes that men make. (You do know where the clitoris is and why it’s important.) You may have some tricks you’ve picked up from masturbation or previous lovers. That’s not enough, however, to satisfy your lover in bed night after night. Continue reading

How to Handle Her Breasts

If you’ve made it to second base and have her shirt on the floor, there are several  things you should know to avoid  clumsy mistake that turn her off instead of on. AskMen’s Marlee Kostiner shares ten tips for handling a woman’s breasts.

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.