About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Breast Fondling Techniques

A woman’s breasts are an erotic hot spot. These five breast fondling techniques will stoke the fires of her arousal.

A woman’s breasts are a symbol of her femininity, and are often considered her second most erogenous zone, after the genitals. For the majority of women, their breasts are a source of great sexual pleasure. Not only that, but breast stimulation also increases vaginal lubrication. Even so, women do vary in how much they enjoy breast play. Although, most women find these five breast fondling techniques to be quite pleasurable, with a new lover, starting out slowly and gently to gauge her reaction is the best approach. Read more

3 Weird Ways to Pleasure Her Breasts

Carolyn Kylstra reveals three ways that men can pleasure their partner’s breasts they may not have thought of.

Breast-men, rejoice! Researchers recently found that when you stimulate a woman’s nipples, the same area of her brain lights up as when you stimulate her bliss-button down below. Ain’t science amazing?

But here’s the thing. Twiddling her nips like they’re old-school radio dials just isn’t going to cut it. To that end, the editors of CFG: Cosmo For Guys have come up with this handy little list of three, ah, unusual ways that women want you to bring joy to their sweater puppies.

Maybe. Worth it? Ohhhh yes. Read more

15 Things Women Want Men to Know About Breasts

You may love breasts, but how much do you really know about them if you don’t have a pair of your own? Hannah Smothers reveals the fifteen things that women want men to know about breasts.

That famous line from a book by a man (Tale of Two Cities) about how “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times,” or whatever is, in my opinion, actually about having boobs. There are such wonderful benefits to having a pair of playthings affixed to your chest. But then there are the dark moments (PERIODS). Either way, having boobies is like being part of a fun, exclusive club and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Read more

My Lesbian Sex Ebook Has Been Published!

KissingDespite lesbians definitely being out of the closet, there are still not a lot of sex tip and sex advice for lesbians available. Apparently, women are supposed to automatically know how to make love to another woman, but that is just not the case. It’s true that a woman should be able to avoid some of the mistakes that men make. (You do know where the clitoris is and why it’s important.) You may have some tricks you’ve picked up from masturbation or previous lovers. That’s not enough, however, to satisfy your lover in bed night after night. Continue reading

How to Handle Her Breasts

If you’ve made it to second base and have her shirt on the floor, there are several  things you should know to avoid  clumsy mistake that turn her off instead of on. AskMen’s Marlee Kostiner shares ten tips for handling a woman’s breasts.

What Should You Do with Her Breasts?

You can think of a million things to do, but these is is what  she’ll love.

Breasts are affectionately referred to as “fun bags” for a reason: They’re really freaking fun to play with. They’re round! They’re perky! They’re soft! They’re squishy! But for as much glee as you receive from her breasts, you want to make sure she’s having an even better time—and that might not happen if all she gets is giddy groping. Read more

How to Play with Breasts

Heaven gives men the 411 on giving your best on her chest.

For more on breast play, see my posts 10 Tips for Better Breast Play and 3 Breast Play Techniques That Turn Women On.

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