About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Tips for Giving a Great Breast Massage

Tantric sex educator shares tips for giving a great breast massage.

How to Give a Woman a Sensual Breast Massage

Give your partner’s breasts the attention they deserve.

A sensual breast massage is a wonderful way to nurture and pleasure your lover. This breast massage awakens sensation and makes the breasts and nipples more sensitive to sexual stimulation and pleasure. Some women who have never enjoyed breast play in the past discover new pleasure through breast massage, and begin enjoying their breasts more fully as an erogenous zone. Read more

How to Play with Breasts

Heaven gives men the 411 on giving your best on her chest.

For more on breast play, see my posts 10 Tips for Better Breast Play and 3 Breast Play Techniques That Turn Women On.

How to Give a Tantric Breast Massage

Though most men, and even many women, are fascinated by breasts, they actually can be an incredibly neglected and forgotten area in the realm of Tantric pleasure and touch. Breast massage is a fantastic way to nurture and pleasure your lover.  Jennifer Lawless of Tantra: Gateway to Ecstasy explains how to give a Tantric breast massage to the woman in your life.

A Tantric breast massage is a ritual that allows a woman to receive sensual energy and unconditional love from her partner. The breast massage is a special type of Tantric massage that focuses on the woman’s breasts. Not only does massaging the breasts make them firmer, it also makes them healthier and aids in maintaining the balance of hormones in a woman�’s body. Breast massage is also a great way for a man to give pleasure, healing, and intimacy to his partner. The breasts are the seat of a woman’s sexuality and need to be loved and honored before any other part of her body will open up to you.

Breast massage can be tricky because breast tissues are quite delicate. However, if done properly and with exerting only moderate pressure, massaging the breasts is perfectly safe. The procedure is also quite simple. Read more

6 Ways to Massage Your Lover's Breasts without Hurting Her

Do you know how to handle your lover’s breasts properly during a sexual massage? Most women find men too rough when it comes to fondling their breasts, and even more so during sexual massage. So what do you do?

A woman has a lot of erogenous zones. But one that is universally known is her breasts. You really can’t give a sexual massage if you don’t give enough attention – and respect – to woman’s lovely pair of breasts.

However, sadly, a lot of men manhandle breasts! Worse, many of you guys think that we love you pinching, grabbing, and even biting them. Ok, maybe we don’t mind as much in the middle of a really, wild romp between the sheets but for the most part, doing that hurts!

So how do you ensure that you don’t cause pain when sexually massaging her breasts? Read on!

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