About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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How to Give Fellatio to a Big Penis

How do you give felltio to a big penis? Although the overwhelming majority of penises are average or small, about one out of six men have a big one, so this is a question that affects a lot of women. The short answer is that you vary your fellatio techniques to compensate for the fact that your mouth is only so big. Just how you do that depends on whether your partner’s penis is long, thick, or long and thick. Continue reading

How to Get Your Girlfriend to Give You a Blow Job

Marni tells you the top things you need to do to get your girlfriend to give you a blow job.

How to Give a Blow Job in 7 Easy Steps

teenage_coupleIf you asked most men what their favorite sex act is, a lot of them would say getting oral sex. Every woman knows that men love getting blow jobs, but not every woman is confident of her ability to give them. They can’t help wondering whether their partners are really enjoying what they’re doing.

The most important  thing to remember when giving fellatio is to take your time and have fun. You enthusiasm and enjoyment is a big part of making fellatio fun for him. Chances are that your blow jobs are just fine, but still unsure of yourself, following these seven easy steps to giving a blow job will ensure that you get the job done right. Continue reading

5 Reasons for Women to Love Giving Blow Jobs

College Candy gives five good reasons why you should be “generous” in bed.“(Generous” is code for “give blow jobs.”)

My enthusiasm for blowjobs is a recent occurrence. A couple of years ago, I was fairly neutral on the act. When I was in high school, I was absolutely adamant that I would never, ever, in a million years, give one. I thought they were degrading, uncomfortably submissive, and something only women with no self-respect would do (I’m utterly ashamed of my younger self). Now, I see them in a different, vastly more positive light. Here’s why:

1. They’re easy.

There is an absurd amount of blowjob tutorials out there, making it seem like oral is akin to rocket science. When I first starting giving oral, I used to obsessively read how-tos written by guys and blowjob queens alike, and it was so overwhelming. It felt like a chore when I was down there, because my head was swirling with so much info. But really, it’s simple – find your rhythm, keep your mouth wet, be enthusiastic (but no need to pretend you’re in a porno), and when you get tired, start incorporating your hands. Of course, there are a ton of other little “tricks” to spice it up, but really, in my experience, guys are not that pressed. They’re generally just stoked that you’re down there. Read more

Intense Fellatio: How to Give Your Man TOTAL Satisfaction

If you are a woman who enjoys performing fellatio on your man, you’re probably also interested in ways to make it even better for him. Fellatio feels good all by itself, but if you make your man feel good about himself, too, you can give him an even more intense experience. Following the five steps below will leave your man completely satisfied in more ways than one.

1) Teasing
The first touches of your mouth can give your man the most incredible sensations. Give him some time to enjoy them and anticipate what is to “come.” If you get the chance to pull out his penis yourself, try gently pulling down his underwear so that you reveal only the head. Then guide his penis to your mouth, and tease him with a couple of kisses before you pull his underwear all the way down and move in for a closer lick. Ever so slowly, glide the tip of your tongue up over the head, down the shaft and back up again. Then take the whole head into your mouth for one full suck, and let it pop out with a loud, sexy “slurp.” All this attention communicates the idea to him that you’re really excited about seeing and handling his penis, which will please him to no end. Continue reading

19 Ways to Get Your Woman to Go Down on You

Every man loves fellatio, but not every woman does. If you’re not getting the oral action you crave, The Frisky suggests nineteen ways to get your woman to go down on you. (In my opinion, the last suggestion works the best.)

Ah, the blow job. It’s idealized and beloved by most men, more so than AC/DC, bacon, or even James friggin’ Bond. But much like rainbows or winning the lottery, it’s hard to predict when or if it’ll happen. Perhaps the only thing more elusive is the woman who loves giving them. If your special lady is having a tough time swallowing this intimate act, here are 19 ways to get her to go down on you. Read more

Mastercard Blowjob Commercial

This couple tries to be sneaky and apparently wakes up the little sister and dad.

Recent Comments

  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.
  • Misty: This is one of the most misogynistic articles I’ve ever read, and I’m surprised you, a...
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  • Wes: Still one of my favorite positions. The wife gets bored with it after awhile, but indulges me. The article had a...