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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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6 Fellatio Tips and Tricks

sexy-couplehMost men love fellatio. Some men even prefer a blow job to sexual intercourse. Since oral sex is such a big deal for men, women ought to know how to do it well.  When you are able to give your man a great blow job, you will gain a power over him that you never thought possible.  He will be constantly thinking of you and begging for that pleasure again. These six fellatio tips and tricks will help make your blow jobs unforgettable. Continue reading

Jenna Jameson’s Tips for Giving the Perfect Blow Job

Kelly shares five tips from Jenna Jameson on giving the perfect blow job.

Jenna Jameson taught me how to give a blow job.

I never got a private lesson (no matter how many emails my boyfriend sent begging her), but I found her fool proof tips tucked away on page 108 of her autobiography, How To Make Love Like A Porn Star. It’s actually a really interesting read (especially compared to the 18th Century Lit I’ve been reading) and I recommend you go out and buy it. But for now, I’ll just share with you a few of her 10 Commandments for giving “killer head he’ll never forget.”

Come on – who doesn’t want to know that? Read more

4 Fellatio Techniques You Need to Try

Funny Girl Sex Guide demonstrates four fellatio techniques you need to try.

How to Give a Double Blow Job

Two girls one guyWhether you call it fellatio, a blow job, or giving head, almost all men LOVE oral sex, and many women love giving it. One way to have even more fun with oral sex is to give a double blow job. A double blow job is two women giving fellatio to one man. To give a double blow job, you need two things: First, you need a man who deserves to get one. Second, you need a partner who thinks giving a double blow job would be fun. Ideally, she also likes the man, or is a good enough friend to you that she wants to help you please him. Continue reading

5 Tips for Better Fellatio

Woman Looking Inside PantsFellatio, giving head, giving a blow-job – almost all men love oral sex by whatever name, and many women like giving it. Fellatio is the act of applying your lips to a man’s penis with the purpose of giving him pleasure. Men are different, and they like different things, so there’s no point learning a perfect fellatio “routine.” However, here are five tips that will guarantee a good blow job.

1) Turn him on visually.

Men are turned on by visual stimuli, so try kneeling in front of a mirror during fellatio so that he can see you, or position yourself doggy style so he can see your butt in the air. Undressing, either partially or completely, can add tto his enjoyment. Continue reading

Better Fellatio: 3 Steps to a Perfect Climax

If you are a woman who enjoys performing fellatio on your man, you’re probably also interested in ways to make it even better for him. If your man climaxes from oral sex, you’re already doing something right, but did you know that his orgasm can be less enjoyable, if you don’t finish him off the right way? To bring  your man to a perfect climax whenever you give him oral sex, be sure to follow these three steps to make his orgasm as intense and pleasurable as possible:

1) Keep his penis in your mouth. The pressure, warmth, and wetness of your mouth is what got his penis ready to explode, so finish what you started. If you take it out before the grand finale, the finale may not be so grand. You should be able to tell when a man is about to ejaculate by the stiffening of his penis and lifting of his testicles. When this happens, taking as much of his penis into your mouth as you can will maximize his pleasure during orgasm. The explosiveness of his semen shooting into your mouth can sometimes be a little overwhelming, but it’s also kind of exciting knowing that you caused it. Continue reading

Blow Him Away

Want to know how to give great oral sex to your man? Rock his world with these fellatio tips from Cosmopolitan.

The ultimate blow job features five key elements: warmth, wetness, eagerness, repetition and at least one surprise manoeuvre. Let Cosmo show you how to perfect this winning combo and your mouth will be his favourite place on the planet..

1 Hot Spot
Don’t skip foreplay, even if your man is as erect as a May Pole. Tell him you’ll decide when he can remove his pants and while he’s straining against the fabric, gently nibble up and down his shaft. Next, place your lips around the head of his cotton-clad penis and blow warm air over him to focus sensation on this hot spot. Read more

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