About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Analingus: Oral Anal Play

anal playAnalingus or rimming is the act of performing oral sex of the anal area. Analingus is not a common sexual practice even today, but times are changing. If you are curious and open to new adventures, analingus can bring you a multitude of wonderful sensations and is also an excellent warm-up for anal sex. The anus is lined with many sensitive nerve endings, so when these are stimulated by the touch of a warm, wet tongue, the result can be quite pleasurable. The key to enjoying these new sensations is to get over any inhibitions and embrace analingus as an incredibly sensual and intimate act between lovers.
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10 Steps to Great First-Time Cunnilingus

pantiesCunnilingus is the art of making love to a vulva and vagina with your mouth and tongue. If your new lover is a cunnilingus virgin, or  she has just never received cunnilingus from you, then her first time may be a little scary. For some women, negative thoughts about their genitals interfere with their ability to enjoy cunnilingus. A woman may worry about everything from the appearance of her vulva to issues like genital odor and genital taste. Continue reading

Advanced Oral Sex with Nina Hartley

NinaHartleyThere are many different kinds of oral sex techniques, and you’ve probably even picked up a set of oral sex tips or your own oral sex techniques along the way. Imagine being so good at oral sex that you can help your partner let go of any inhibitions and have orgasms that blow his or her mind. Legendary porn star Nina Hartley shares the secrets to her success on New World Sex Educator Jaiya’s radio show Sex with Jaiya. After describing how she left nursing to become a porn star, Nina explains how you can create great combos when it comes everything from cunnilingus to fellatio to analingus. Listen to Advanced Oral Sex with Nina Hartley

Fellatio & the Backdoor

In this episode of CherryTV, the women share their tongue techniques – pushing the boundaries of oral sex by teasing the anus. Watch Fellatio & the Backdoor.

Analingus: The Dark Kiss

PleasureAnalingus, also known as anilingus, the “dark kiss,” or rimming, is oral stimulation of the anus. For many people, analingus is a sensuous experience, both on the giving and the receiving end. Some say there is nothing as arousing as having a warm, soft tongue and lips stimulating them in such an intimate area, and those who love to give it find the experience equally as arousing. Because the anus is packed with sensitive nerve endings, analingus can produce exquisite, erotic sensations.

Analingus can also be a great introduction to the sensation of anal stimulation For men and women who enjoy being anally penetrated, analingus is a delicious tease for the main course to come, and for men who are apprenensive about anal penetration, with analingus they can comfortably experience anal stimulation to see if they might like it. Continue reading

10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex

bed-coupleMany people believe that anal intercourse hurts and that it is always an uncomfortable experience. This is quite simply false. If it hurts, you’re doing it wrong. Actually, anal intercourse can provide a unique form of pleasure for both men and women. Anal sex is enjoyable for men because the tight anal sphincter rings provide strong sensations to a thrusting penis. Continue reading

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