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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Best Anal Sex Positions for People Who Love Sex From Behind

If you love sex from behind, Sean Jameson says these five positions are the best.

Having sex in multiple positions and even oral sex are not as much of a taboo topic as having sex from behind sex, better known as anal sex. Somehow, people continue to be shy (scared?) when it comes to having sex from behind.

However, sex from behind can actually be a lot of fun — for both women and men. Plus, anal sex can save your sex life from boredom. Opening your mind to it can be one of the greatest moves you make in the bedroom. Trust me, you may be pleasantly surprised at just how much you enjoy taking him from behind. Read more

4 Great Anal Sex Positions

Tracey Cox describes four anal sex positions you may not have tried.

Anal sex positions can be a lot more imaginative than doing it doggy style. If you’re up for some anal action, try any (or all) of these.

If you’re never tried anal sex before, do both of you a favour and read the Anal Sex Prep Guide first but if you’re an old hand, all you need is lots of (good quality) anal lube, a wicked glint in your eye and maybe the odd piece of furniture! Read more

5 Anal Sex Positions You Probably Haven’t Tried

Doggy style is not the only anal sex position – not by a long shot. Jill Hamilton  reveals how to add some variety to your anal sex menu.

Anal sex is a lot like sushi: A few decades ago, the average person might not have taken part in either regularly. Who could’ve predicted the meteoric rise of the booty, or the spicy tuna roll for that matter? (OK, anal sex is also not at all like sushi in practically every other way, but that is not our concern today.)

Whether you’re new to it or whether it’s been on the menu for ages, here are some positions to try, arranged from most entry-level vanilla to more advanced undertakings. Read more

How to Give a Woman an Anal Orgasm

Anal sexAnal sex can be extremely pleasurable, not only for men, but also for women. Generally, for women, the pleasure received from anal intercourse is due to the shared nerve endings located between the rectal wall and the vagina, and/or from indirect stimulation of the G-spot and Deep Spot. The anus also contains many nerves that can react in a pleasurable manner when excited. An anal orgasm is an orgasm produced by anal stimulation. All women are able to achieve it, but only a lucky few have actually experienced one. Those who have often describe an anal orgasm as stronger than other types. Continue reading

Best Positions for Anal Sex

So, you’ve finally gotten your woman to let you try anal sex. Heaven gives you the inside tips on how to make this experience and every other experience after as enjoyable as you can imagine. (BTW, the first time doesn’t have to be terribly painful if you follow the 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex.)

The 3 Best Anal Sex Positions for Intimacy

Anal sex is an exciting way for a couple to explore each other sexually, creating new and intense sensations for both of you to enjoy. Anal sex can also be an exquisitely intimate act, in which a woman surrenders her body completely to her man. Whether you are experienced at anal sex, or you are trying it for the first time, these three positions will allow for greater intimacy between partners.

1) Side Anal is a good position for intimacy. With her lying on her side and you lying on your side behind her, she can relax her anus, and you can easily access the entire anal area. This is one of the best anal sex positions because it allows you to enter from behind, but still be able to wrap your arms around your lover. As you have her cuddled next to you, pleasure her with slow and gentle movements. Caress her shoulders and softly kiss her neck and back from this position. This will make her feel cherished and appreciated, creating a sense of intimacy and causing her to be filled with incredible pleasure! Continue reading

Anal Sex for Beginners

analFor many people, anal sex is the ultimate taboo. Many people are attracted to it precisely because it’s so taboo and mysterious. Others haven’t tried it yet and are curious.

What Is Anal Sex?

Anal sex is the act of placing a finger, an erect penis, or object into the anus of another person to give and receive sexual pleasure. Some people also enjoy oral stimulation of the anus, known as analingus or rimming.

Does Anal Sex Hurt?

Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, you’re doing it wrong. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it’s entirely possible to enjoy anal sex as a safe and fulfilling part of your sex life. If you follow these 10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex, you can ensure that your first anal sex experience is pleasurable rather than painful. Continue reading

Recent Comments

  • Flinkd: Bigger penis is stretching the walls of the vagina better. (nerve endings feel more pressure, therefore...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....