About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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6 Easy Steps to Maximize Your Backdoor Pleasure

Emily Morse used to keep her backdoor closed, but she has since found that anal sex can be enjoyable if you follow six easy steps.

I used to be one of those “backdoor closed” ladies, shooting suspicious eyes at any friend who claimed to like anal sex. Who was she trying to fool? I had my own fears and worries that prevented me from trying it. It took several years, plus a couple positive backdoor experiences, to show me that anal sex really can be enjoyable.

There is a key to maximizing the pleasure, though. Here are six things to do that will help up the feel-good factor for you: Read more

8 Women Describe What Anal Sex Feels Like

Eight women who have had anal sex describe what it was actually like for them.

For some women out there, anal action is the cherry on top of the sex version of an ice cream sundae: a little extra delight that completes something that was already delicious on its own. But for others, it’s more like pâté: intriguing enough, worth a try, but absolutely not up their alleys (as in, a penis will probably not be going up that alley ever again). We got women who fall on various parts of the anal sex spectrum to share exactly what it feels like during the act. Read on for their informative—and sometimes hilarious—opinions. Read more

5 Ways to Make Anal Sex Better for HIM

Belly DownAnal sex is enjoyable for men because the tight anal sphincter rings provide strong sensations to a thrusting penis, but that doesn’t mean that women can’t do things to make it more enjoyable. Although the man does all the ‘bumping and the grinding,” it’s the woman who makes the experience fun. Many women have anal sex primarily to reward their men or make them happy, so here are five ways for women to make anal sex better for their partners. Continue reading

5 Ways to Make Anal Sex Better for Her

Satisfied CoupleAnal sex is enjoyable for men because the tight anal sphincter rings provide strong sensations to a thrusting penis. However, there is more to anal sex than just “in and out.”  If anal sex is not enjoyable to your partner, she is not going to want to do it in the future. There are several things you can do to make anal sex better for her so that she can enjoy it too. Continue reading

How to Give an Anal Orgasm

Anal orgasm is not just a “convenient” theory promulgated by men who want to get their wives or girlfriends to try anal sex, says Gabrielle Moore.  It’s real, and she gives men ten tips for giving one.

Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable, but you have to know what you’re doing. Here’s how to give an orgasm through anal penetration alone.

You might think that an orgasm is an orgasm, no matter which hole was being penetrated, but let me tell you that is not the case.

“What Is An “Anal Orgasm?” Read more

The Teasing Penetration Anal Sex Technique

The Teasing Penetration Anal Sex Technique is a method for gently introducing your man’s penis into your body and getting you used to being entered. It is a much more effective way of preparing you for anal sex than fingering. This method should  help you if you often experience discomfort or pain initially during anal penetration. Anal sex should never be uncomfortable or painful, and with the Teasing Penetration Anal Sex Technique, it won’t be. Best of all, this method not only makes anal penetration more comfortable, but also is quite pleasurable for you and him! Continue reading

The 3 Best Anal Sex Positions for Intimacy

Anal sex is an exciting way for a couple to explore each other sexually, creating new and intense sensations for both of you to enjoy. Anal sex can also be an exquisitely intimate act, in which a woman surrenders her body completely to her man. Whether you are experienced at anal sex, or you are trying it for the first time, these three positions will allow for greater intimacy between partners.

1) Side Anal is a good position for intimacy. With her lying on her side and you lying on your side behind her, she can relax her anus, and you can easily access the entire anal area. This is one of the best anal sex positions because it allows you to enter from behind, but still be able to wrap your arms around your lover. As you have her cuddled next to you, pleasure her with slow and gentle movements. Caress her shoulders and softly kiss her neck and back from this position. This will make her feel cherished and appreciated, creating a sense of intimacy and causing her to be filled with incredible pleasure! Continue reading

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