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Spooning: The Best Position for Comfort and Intimacy?

The spooning (side-by-side) sex positions can be great for increased intimacy for both partners. It gets its name because your bodies come together in a way that mimics the way spoons fit together in a drawer..It is possibly the most romantic sex position since it allows for couples to have intercourse while cuddling, or “spooning.” With this type of sex position, both partners hands are free to caress the other partner (partly dependent on if partners are facing each other or not) or stimulate their or their partners genital area.

These positions have no risk involved, either, as they are not physically demanding since both partners are generally lying flat on the bed or the ground. A couple may begin intercourse in this position or change to it by rolling over from man-on-top, woman on top, or even sitting position. It’s very easy after engaging in this position for awhile to then just roll her over on her stomach. She can stay flat or lift her buttocks up in the air by getting up on her knees. You can also roll her over on her back and gracefully slide into the missionary position. With “sporking,” the top partner picks up the bottom partner’s thigh with his arm. This makes penetration easier during spooning because the vaginal or anal opening is wider.

In this side-entry variation, you both lie on your sides and get into the classic “spoon” position. He enters from behind to assume the traditional side-entry sex position. The woman then brings her knees up to her chest, altering both the penetration and angle of entry and adding an erotic edge. He molds himself into you, and you both end up in an almost fetal position.

The spooning sex position can be the whole lovemaking event, or it can be the position you begin in and then move on to something else, or it can be used to slow things down and extend the lovemaking session. After some some hard, fast thrusting, the male may be about to climax, but would like to hold off. You can use spooning to slow things down and prolong intercourse. After a period of gentle, low-stimulation lovemaking, his urge to climax will pass and then you can resume some harder, faster thrusting if you want..

If you’ve had an argument and want a quick way to heal the wounds and remove the negative energy, there is no better way than spooning. Spooning sex is a great position to use at night just before going to sleep. After a session of tender, relaxing lovemaking, you can then fall asleep still wrapped in the spoon position. Sleeping together in the spooning sex position feeds intimacy and promotes harmony in the relationship. Or what better way to wake up than to roll over and start your day with a little spoon lovemaking first thing in the morning?

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
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  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.