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“Shocking” Study: Men Want Sex More Often Than Women

A new reveals the “shocking” finding that men have a greater and far less discriminating appetite for sex than women do. What will they discover next: that women don’t always have orgasm with intercourse? I just hope this study didn’t receive any government funding.

Who wanted sex sooner the last time you were dating someone: you or the guy in question? Who pressured the other to do something a little more sexually adventurous than the reluctant person felt comfortable with: you or him? Or, the last time you hooked up with someone, who coaxed the other person into leaving the party where you met so some clothes could come off: you or him?

If you asked a group of your girlfriends — and their sisters — questions like these, what do you think their answers would be?

I ask because I think the average young woman feels a lot of cultural pressure to have sex like a man — and tries to make her own appetite for sexual adventure live up to the expectations that her partner has for her, or that she may have developed for herself after watching one too many episodes of Desperate Housewives.

But, as it turns out (surprise, surprise) … studies indicate that men want sex more than women do, as sociologist Mark Regnerus notes in a new article for Slate. He writes that social psychologists Roy Baumeister and Kathleen Vohs and others “have repeatedly shown, on average, men want sex more than women do. Call it sexist, call it whatever you want — the evidence shows it’s true.” Read more

2 Responses to “Shocking” Study: Men Want Sex More Often Than Women

  • LovinIt says:

    I’m not surprised at all.. however on one account I brought up a new trial to my boyfriend who seemed “up” for the idea….anal sex. I was bored one day and decided to stop at an adult outlet I always saw (Adult Factory Outlet) from the fwy in Sylmar, CA. I walked in without any intent to purchase, but the people were so friendly and talkative I decided to buy an anal toy for my bf (as a gag) but once I presented it to him he didn’t shy away. So my little stop to the shop actually spiced up our relationship more than I ever would have expected it to.

  • Jason says:

    To be honest I’m not sure this is entirely correct.

    Certainly most women won’t respond to being invited to casual sex by a stranger, but within the context of a relationship I think women can be very eager.

    At least that was my experience after taking my fiancée out for dinner the other night. ;-)

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