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Sex Positions for Different Penis Sizes

There are just as many penis sizes as there are men, but they can generally be classified as big, average, and small. There seem to be almost as many sex positions as penis sizes, but most couples only use a few of them: missionary, doggy, and maybe woman-on-top. Not all sex positions work equally well with all penis sizes, however – at least not without modification. If sexual intercourse isn’t as satisfying as you wish it would be, it may be that you are using a sex position that doesn’t allow your partner’s penis to stimulate you as it should. For each penis size, I’ve described three sex positions that you can try. One of them may become your new favorite.

Big Penis Size

Missionary Position

This man-on-top position is pleasurable for a woman if the man has a big penis, but remember that the more your pelvis is tilted, the deeper the penetration. Also, the further apart your legs are, the deeper he can thrust, so keep your thighs together. Not only will it prevent him from plunging in too far, it can also make for some out-of-this-world clitoral/penile friction. (My post What to Do If Your Man’s Penis Is Too Big gives tips for having sex with a big penis.)

Woman-on-Top

The woman-on-top position is a good one to try because it lets you control the depth of penetration. Have him lie flat on his back and hover over him on your hands and knees while sliding him inside you. Move your hips in circular motions as you glide up and down, only going as deep as you can handle. Or, have him sit on a chair with no arms. Then simply straddle his lap, either facing toward him or away from him, and use your feet and thigh muscles to pump away.

The Slide

He kneels on a hard surface in a praying position, keeping his back straight. You lie in front of him with your genitals facing his direction. He then lifts your legs up to his shoulders, so your weight is supported on your shoulders. Shifting his erection downward, he penetrates you. He holds you in position by wrapping his arms around your upper thighs. The Slide is successful because it’s a position in which he can penetrate you shallowly. The technique works: He is able to focus on your supersensitive nerve endings near the entrance to the vagina with what also happens to be his most sensitive part – the head of his penis.

Average Penis Size

Missionary with a Pillow

In the missionary position add a pillow under your bum. Tilting your pelvis will make entry easier, let him thrust deeper, and make your G-spot and clitoris more accessible for stimulation.

Doggy Style

You kneel on all fours; he stands behind you and penetrates, holding your hips to move you back and forth. Your butt presses against his testicles for additional stimulation, and your orgasm feels extra intense because he’s hitting the sensitive part of your front vaginal wall. He can also easily reach around to play with your clitoris.

The Lotus

With him sitting cross-legged, straddle him and wrap your legs around his waist. In this position the two of you rock back and forth, with your breasts pressed up against his chest and your arms around his neck. It’s intimate and lets you easily make out during penetration.

Small Penis Size

Downward Doggy

Lie face down with legs stretched out and open slightly. Raise your butt a bit and have him enter, lying face down on top of you. He can prop himself up with his arms for more range of motion. This position allows for lots of penetration and friction for both of you, and you can stimulate your clitoris against the bed.

The Hook-Up

You lie on your back with him on top of you. Hook your legs up over his shoulders for deeper penetration, giving him complete control. A tip to remember for this and other positions: crossing your ankles (in this case, behind his neck) helps tighten the vaginal canal. It’s also a great way to squeeze him in and make him feel fuller inside you. His scrotum brushes against your butt with each stroke, and you can reach forward to cup his testicles while he can play with your breasts with his hands. The blood will rush to extremities like your nipples, making them highly sensitive.

Forward Bend

This position is like that move in yoga class where you bend forward to stretch out your legs except now you’ve got a man underneath you. With him lying on his back, lower yourself so that your legs are stretched in front of you. This is the less physically demanding version of the Hook Up – at least for you. He’ll be able to manipulate your motion by grabbing your hips, and you can use your hands to prop yourself up a bit. This is a good one for him because again, he can penetrate you deeply. (For more on this topic, see my post Two Sex Positions That Make Your Man’s Penis Feel Bigger.)

Size does matter when it comes to sex, but any size can work if you use the right sex position. To modify other sex positions besides these, just remember the principles: moving your legs closer together tightens the vaginal canal and only allows shallower penetration. Moving your legs further apart opens the vaginal canal and allows deeper penetration. It’s not rocket science, so you should be able to modify just about any of your favorite sex positions to make them more user-friendly with whatever size of penis your partner has.

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One Response to Sex Positions for Different Penis Sizes

  • My favourite position is a variation on this:
    http://www.bestsexpositionsforyou.com/images/PC059913.jpg
    The variation is simple: rather than being perpendicular to my partner, I curl my upper body around her hip so that my upper body is parallel to her upper body.

    My legs are scissoring or straddling her left leg (i.e. her left leg is between my two legs) and rather than her keeping her right leg straight up as in the picture, she drapes it over my body right above my hip. I’m normally taller than her, so after curling or wrapping my body around her’s, our heads end up right next to each other; she can turn to her right and our lips are perfectly aligned for kissing like crazy while we do the deed (or I can bite, nibble or kiss her neck or breast). Because her left leg is wedged between my legs, I can use that to leverage against when thrusting. With my right hand I can massage either of her breasts, caress her cheek, rub her abdomen or reach down and stroke her clit; and with my left arm (under her torso) I can reach straight across and hold her, reach up and grab the back of her neck (if I want to be physical and forceful), or even reach down and slide a finger in her bum.

    This position permits very deep penetration and excellent chance for high speed and hard thrusting (due to leveraging the woman’s left leg), but also allows for calibrating the depth of penetration, so while it’s good for guys in the small or medium category, it’s also good for those of us in the big category (depending, of course, on your partner).

    PS Actually, because when it comes to sex, I am left handed, I prefer the mirror image of the photo linked to above–me laying on my right side, to my partner’s left, with my legs on either side of her right leg, and her left leg draping over my body right above my hip–the point being this position works from either side.

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