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Rules for Successful One-Night Stands

Alexandra at Modern Lexenomics lists some rules she follows to avoid bad situations when picking up strangers for one-night stands.  If your pick-ups fail or go awry, these rules could give you some clues as to what you may be doing wrong.

Just some rules I followed over the years when I used to meet people in bars for a little fun.

1. If someone absolutely, positively, insists on going back to their place, bow out. If someone won’t go to Motel 6, even if you offer to pay for the whole thing, something could be wrong. Why does someone HAVE to go back to their place? I get them not wanting to go to yours, but a neutral site shouldn’t bother them. I’m not saying not to go to someone’s place if you trust your gut, but if they absolutely insist on this, something’s a little off, especially if their reason doesn’t sound legit.

2. If they’re high, say bye-bye. People on drugs aren’t safe. Hands down, no exceptions. Well, pot, maybe. I don’t really consider that a hard drug. But I still wouldn’t go home with Toked-up Toni. Listen, I’m pro-legalizing Mary Jane. I don’t mind people toking some at home. But if you can’t stay sober before you go out, then don’t bother me.

3. Keep an eye on how they treat bartenders and waitresses. Sure, that person will be on their best behavior with you, but if they treat servers like garbage, you’ll probably be getting that treatment later on. Read more

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