My technique for controlling ejaculation is to stop direct stimulation of the prostate when he tells me he’s getting close, or (if he cheats and doesn’t tell me) when I detect that he’s approaching climax. I also either press on the perineum midway between his scrotum and anus, or I pull his testicles (gently) down and away from his body. I’ve found that I can continue with a light, sensual stroking of the penis while doing this without causing ejaculation. I then go back to prostate stimulation.

I was surprised at first at how many times I can do this before he finally ejaculates. Sometimes the orgasm is the whole-body, shuddering kind, especially if I’ve remembered to stimulate the rest of his body during the massage. Concerning that, I’ve also found that men seem to be more open than usual to licking and gentle sucking of their nipples during prostate massage. Maybe it’s because they’re being penetrated and have given up control.

You mention the following:

“By applying more or less pressure to the prostate gland, you can learn to control your man’s sensations, even to the point of inhibiting him from ejaculating. The ability to control ejaculation through prostate massage allows for nearly unending stimulation of the his genitals….”

What is your specific technique for that? Do you have a publication with the how-to? Also, you mention that pressing on the top of the prostate isn’t a good idea. Only the sides. Who told you that?