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Pompoir: The Art of Milking the Lingam

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Pompoir is the art of “milking” a man’s lingam (Sanskrit for penis) with your vaginal muscles during sexual intercourse. Also known as the Singapore kiss, Shanghai kiss, Shanghai squeeze, or the Shanghai grip, the word pompoir originated in India. My post How to Milk Your Man’s Penis with the Vaginal Squeeze explains how to do the technique, and now Jennifer Lawless gives a Tantric version in her post Pompoir: The Art of Milking the Lingam.

Pompoir is the art of “milking” the lingam of your partner with your yoni. (Lingam and yoni are Sanskrit for penis and vagina.) While both partners are still, the woman grips and massages her man’s erection with rhythmic, rippling contractions of the pubococcygeus muscle (PC) and other pelvic floor muscles. (This rippling effect also happens during an intense orgasm in a woman.) The rippling causes a kind of milking action that can be felt by the lingam.

A woman trained in the art of pompoir is called a Kabbazah in the Middle East. The word Kabbazah translates to “one who holds.” Men say that pompoir feels like having a warm, soft, wet, velvet-gloved hand wrapped around their lingam, firmly gripping it and stroking them into the most delicious sexual nirvana they have ever experienced. Read more

4 Responses to Pompoir: The Art of Milking the Lingam

  • muttley says:

    Great find! I sent this to my wife and she was able to isolate her elevator muscles.

  • muttley says:

    Follow up: Because of my wife’s ability to isolate her muscles more effectively, she’s finally developed a way to squirt by relaxing and flexing certain regions.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Since external pressure on the G-spot can cause female ejaculation, flexing the vaginal muscles to create internal pressure should be able to also.

  • muttley says:

    You bring up a good point. She can flex and relax her yoni muscles around my lingam, but to get her to squirt, she still needs an “Njoy Wand” Any more flexing tips you find will be appreciated.

    Keep up the great work!

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