About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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5 Porn Tricks to Leave to the Pros

More likely than not, re-enacting the moves you see in porn won’t make you a sex god. They’ll just make you another man who’s clueless in bed.

Want to screw yourself over in the sack? Keep watching other people screw each other on the Internet.

Porn, as titillating as it may be, can really give you an unrealistic impression of what women want in bed. Thing is, a lot of dudes watch it—which means a lot of dudes end up trying to pull off some PornHub Hall-of-Fame position that ultimately ends up being a real buzzkill. Read more

Save Water; Shower Together: 6 Tips to Keep You Wet

Sexpert Emily Morse gives six sexy tips to make shower time a fun time.

As we celebrate Masturbation May, it’s important to recognize why self-pleasure is so important. Of course this month is all about loving yourself with the goal of an earth-shattering climax, but it’s also about recognizing that masturbation is a healthy and wonderful expression of your amazing sexual self. Masturbation May is also the perfect time to show your lover exactly what feels best for you and your body, and to see what makes your partner hot too. So let’s jump in the shower for our six hottest tips on how to get dirty with some good, clean, masturbation fun. Read more

5 Dos and Don’ts of Hot Oral Sex

Kitty Nelson reveals five dos and don’ts of hot oral sex.

Oral sex. It’s an amazing foreplay technique, a major turn-on, a great appetizer to sex, or a full course all on its own. Whether you give it or receive it, it is an extremely arousing and intimate way to interact with your partner’s body.

But there are rules … if you want to ensure it’s pleasurable for everyone involved, that is (and of course, you do, right?). Want to make going down a real treat? Here are some tips, tricks, and traps to avoid. Read more

A Definitive Ranking of Every Way to Have Sex

There’s the Mile High Club, three-way sex, make-up sex, and any other kind of sex you can think up, and for each, there’s an advantage and a drawback.

Ah, sex. It’s right there at the base of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, alongside food and air. We think about it every seven seconds, and then we go to sleep and dream about it continuously. It is, as George Michael affirms, natural and fun. (Best when it’s one on one is open to debate, as I think even George would now concede.) As Esquire‘s leading sex expert (or, for short, “fuckpert”), I have been asked to analyze and rank all the different kinds of sex you might come across in your travels through life. Read and debate with a loved one, or someone who is less than 250 feet away from you on the hookup app of your choosing. Read more

Vaginal Kung-Fu Might Be the Key to Better Orgasms

Chances are you haven’t heard of vaginal kung-fu, but according to Lisa Masterson, MD, it could be the key to better orgasms.

Pretty much everyone knows that weightlifting can have benefits for your body. But what many people don’t know is that weightlifting can be good for your vagina as well. Yep, you heard right.

A practice called vaginal kung-fu, or vaginal weightlifting, uses an egg-shaped stone attached to weights to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Lisa Masterson, MD, talked about the benefits of vaginal weightlifting in a new video posted to her blog, Health In Heels.

In the video, Masterson said vaginal kung-fu is an ancient Taoist practice that can lead to more intense and pleasurable orgasms. Read more

The 4 G-Spots in a Womans Body You Did Not Know Exist

Adina Rivers reveals the four G-spots in a woman’s body that you probably don’t know exist.

“It’s for real.. a woman has many “G-Spot’s” all over her body. When touched properly these spots can bring her closer to an unforgettable orgasmic ride. In fact she can have an orgasm without being touched on her “real” pussy.”

So I’ve found a very interesting article about the many “vaginas” in a woman’s body.

I’ve personally experienced these hot spots during sensual full body massages. The pleasure found through these points is indescribable, activating energy throughout the whole body and not just in my genitals. This alone opens my body up to more intense and longer lasting orgasms.

So let us check out this magic. Read more

10 Ways to Give a Man the Best Porn Star Experience in Bed

The way that women act in porn is designed to turn men on. If you want to give a man the porn star experience when you’re in bed together, Sydney Arbor reveals ten ways to do it.

1) Arch your back. In doggy, when you’re on your side and he’s in mish position, whenever possible. For some reason, men find women’s arched backs sexier. I think because it accentuates your curves. Also, in doggy, look back at him and let him see your face and how good he’s making you feel. Read moreRead more

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