About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

Google Translator

    Translate from:

    Translate to:

The Art of the Hand Job

Tantric sex practitioner Shakti Amarantha describes how to give a hand job the Tantric way.

I’m continuing to collect things I wrote in other places that are relevant here. In this case, I was asked to explain what I mean by “giving a great handjob.” (I’m going to describe giving one to a man, but the setup is similar and there’s a link at the end to more detailed instructions for women.)

For starters, I strongly recommend three things: Read more

4 Great Anal Sex Positions

Tracey Cox describes four anal sex positions you may not have tried.

Anal sex positions can be a lot more imaginative than doing it doggy style. If you’re up for some anal action, try any (or all) of these.

If you’re never tried anal sex before, do both of you a favour and read the Anal Sex Prep Guide first but if you’re an old hand, all you need is lots of (good quality) anal lube, a wicked glint in your eye and maybe the odd piece of furniture! Read more

Quick Oral Sex Tips for Men

Glamazon Tyomi from Glamerotica101.com gives men a few quick tips on how to become great at the performance of cunnilingus.

8 Easy Tips for a Slippery and Sexy Nuru Massage

If you have heard about Nuru massage and are curious, these eight easy tips will help you to give one.

Curious about Nuru massage? You are not alone! Nuru massage is one of the fastest-growing erotic massage trends.

As sex experts who focus on couples massage, we’ve been getting a ton of questions about Nuru massages. So, we put together this guide on how to enjoy it at home! Read more

3 Ways to Find a Third Partner for a Threesome

Lindsay Tigar reveals three proven ways to find a third partner for a threeesome.

Maybe it’s your 40th birthday or you’ve been with your leading lady for 15 years. Or perhaps you’re both just curious and finally brave enough to give it a go. Whatever the reason for deciding to try to have a threesome, let us be the first to congratulate you on adding this (potentially) very hot experience to your sexual history. Even if it turns out to be a one-time thing, as long as you and your girl are on the same page about what it’ll mean (and what it won’t) for your relationship, it could be the rut-buster that brings some fire and energy back to your sexual routine. Read more

10 Tips for Surviving Your First Sex Party

If you’ve been invited to a sex party, aka orgy, Laura Jayne Martin has ten tips to help make your first time a great time.

Orgies are intimidating, and you’re definitely going to have a lot of, um, new experiences the first time you go to one. Don’t let that scare you off! Here are 10 ways to seem like sex parties are so old hat for you. Read more

6 Kama Sutra Techniques That Make Missionary Position Even Better

The Kama Sutra is famous for its sex positions, but it also has techniques that make everyday sex positions like missionary even better.

There’s only one problem with missionary sex: The vast majority of men thrust in the same conventional, in-and-out way.  Same speed, same depth, same hip motion, same everything. In other words, yawn and repeat. What these guys don’t know is that there are much more exciting ways for him to insert his penis. Ways that will create new, pleasurable sensations for both you and him. Take these six ideas from the Kama Sutra, for example. It may be an ancient Hindu text—which explains the strange names like “boar’s blow”—but these techniques certainly hold up in 2017. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Wes: Still one of my favorite positions. The wife gets bored with it after awhile, but indulges me. The article had a...
  • Tom: Nuru can be fantastic IF done correctly, with a person the uses the correct lotion, mat and stimulation. Because...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It is very hard to find the right person for a threesome. I always recommend trying to hook up with...
  • Gary Denoyer: When needing to pee I pee then stop hold it pee hold it ect hardly ever have a problem but if so I...
  • Tamati: My honey and i have sex at least once a day on average and it amazing. We have been married for a little over...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Yes, the evolutionary theory is probably right. Human males don’t have bright colors or tail...
  • Danny: I love reading your stuff, and I definitely agree that size matters big time. Even though many women would...
  • Katie: Great article, this is exactly what I have been doing with my husband for years now. All massage’s with...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: More women than you might think actually measure a particularly large penis. That’s how they...
  • John Mode: Either women are very poor judges of how big an inch actually is, or they have very unrealistic...