About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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Why This Legendary Type of Orgasm Is Controversial

Female ejaculation is still controversial, but why?

Female ejaculation, aka squirting, has become a lot more mainstream in the past few decades, thanks in part to porn. Indeed, many a porn video has led us to believe that if you stimulate a vagina in just the right way, it’ll transform into a free-flowing, wellspring of ejaculate. Read more

How to Touch a Woman’s Breasts on a Date

Want to know how to touch a woman’s breasts and make her love it when you’re all alone and cozying up to her? This guide reveals how to touch a woman’s breasts on a date the easy and safe way!

Making out is confusing, but it can be so much fun if you really know how to do it well.

In the first part of this guide on how to make out with a girl, I’ve told you about how to warm her up and kiss her and make her love it.

And you really should read that before going ahead and figuring out how to touch a woman’s breasts. Read more

How to Give Fellatio to a Big Penis

How do you give felltio to a big penis? Although the overwhelming majority of penises are average or small, about one out of six men have a big one, so this is a question that affects a lot of women. The short answer is that you vary your fellatio techniques to compensate for the fact that your mouth is only so big. Just how you do that depends on whether your partner’s penis is long, thick, or long and thick. Continue reading

3 Amazing Cunnilingus Techniques

Expand your sexual repertoire with these three easy to perform and highly pleasurable cunnilingus techniques.

Because every woman has different degrees of sensitivity in her erogenous zones, there is no single, one-size-fits-all method for oral sex (or any other sex act). That said, most women love these three amazing oral sex techniques. They are both easy to perform and highly pleasurable for your lover. Read more

Marijuana Linked to Better Sexual Performance and Higher Libido

Marijuana is linked to better sexual performance and higher libido, according to a Stanford Univeersity study.

Marijuana boosts libido and enhances sexual performance, a new study has found – despite previous research suggesting the opposite.

For years, many scientists have associated the drug with sexual dysfunction.

But new research by the Stanford University School of Medicine has found that, on the contrary, cannabis users have 20 percent more sex than non-users – and there appears to be a causal connection. Read more

10 Things That Turn Men on in the Bedroom

Mark Rosenfeld reveals the top ten thing turn men on in the bedroom.

How to Have a Threesome – From Start to Finish

Whitney C. Harris shares a step-by-step guide to having a threesome – from start to finish.

For many of us, threesomes are the kind of sexploits that only happen in the movies. But they don’t have to be permanently relegated to the realm of fantasy. With a little forethought and planning, you can make a three-way tryst a very sexy reality. Here’s how. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.