About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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4 Tricks to Make Her Orgasm

Using these four tricks will a woman achieve orgasm every time, says Rebecca Rosenblat.

She’s arching her back, moaning and groaning in the throes of pleasure. You’re feeling great about yourself and loving how it’s going, but you’re not alone if these moments are sometimes accompanied by a nagging worry: What if I can’t get it right a second time? What if this is all just luck? Read more

10 Fellatio Tips to Drive Your Man Mad With Lust

No matter how much a woman enjoys performing fellatio on her partner, the main reason she does it is to give him sexual pleasure. Men certainly appreciate receiving the basic blow job, but there’s so much more you can do to spice it up for your partner. If you haven’t tried anything new with your blow jobs lately, these ten tips are sure to give you some good ideas. Continue reading

Supersize Your Orgasms

Follow this step-by- step guide to deliver a supersized orgasm – one for him, one for her!

Give him the best orgasm he’s ever had
Yes, we all know the joke says simply handing him a beer and taking off your clothes will do the trick.

But we’re after a super-sized orgasm here, so start with the beer and nakedness and add a whispered promise that he doesn’t have to do anything: just take.

He’s in heaven already. Read more

6 Sex Positions to Try When You Just HAVE to Spice Up Your Routine

When you just have to spice up your sex life, try these six creative sex positions.

If you automatically roll your eyes when you see yet another headline with the words sex positions, rest assured that there are still at least a few you definitely haven’t heard of—and that won’t make you feel like you have to be part human, part pretzel to pull them off. If you wanted to, you could truly try a new, totally doable position every day without running out of options.

So if you’re itching for some new and creative sex positions but you feel like you’ve already tried everything in the book, here are some moves even the most voracious readers of sex tips probably haven’t heard of: Read more

How Penis Size Influences a Man’s Sex Appeal

Penis size influences a man’s sex appeal, and the taller the man, the bigger the effect, research from The Australian National University has reveals.

5 Porn Tricks to Leave to the Pros

More likely than not, re-enacting the moves you see in porn won’t make you a sex god. They’ll just make you another man who’s clueless in bed.

Want to screw yourself over in the sack? Keep watching other people screw each other on the Internet.

Porn, as titillating as it may be, can really give you an unrealistic impression of what women want in bed. Thing is, a lot of dudes watch it—which means a lot of dudes end up trying to pull off some PornHub Hall-of-Fame position that ultimately ends up being a real buzzkill. Read more

Save Water; Shower Together: 6 Tips to Keep You Wet

Sexpert Emily Morse gives six sexy tips to make shower time a fun time.

As we celebrate Masturbation May, it’s important to recognize why self-pleasure is so important. Of course this month is all about loving yourself with the goal of an earth-shattering climax, but it’s also about recognizing that masturbation is a healthy and wonderful expression of your amazing sexual self. Masturbation May is also the perfect time to show your lover exactly what feels best for you and your body, and to see what makes your partner hot too. So let’s jump in the shower for our six hottest tips on how to get dirty with some good, clean, masturbation fun. Read more

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