About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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10 Ways to Give a Man the Best Porn Star Experience in Bed

The way that women act in porn is designed to turn men on. If you want to give a man the porn star experience when you’re in bed together, Sydney Arbor reveals ten ways to do it.

1) Arch your back. In doggy, when you’re on your side and he’s in mish position, whenever possible. For some reason, men find women’s arched backs sexier. I think because it accentuates your curves. Also, in doggy, look back at him and let him see your face and how good he’s making you feel. Read moreRead more

7 Sex Positions More Fun Than Doggy-Style

Jamie Hergenrader reveals how to score all the benefits of doing it from behind, without getting down on all fours..

Ladies and gents love doing it doggy style. And though the name leaves a lot to be desired (seriously, who came up with that?), this position offers up lots of benefits so you get the most bang for your, um, bang.  Read moreRead more

Thrusting Techniques: Speed, Depth, Rhythm, and Style

Did you even know there is such a thing as thrusting technique? Here is how to vary your speed, depth, rhythm, and style as you thrust.

What Is a Super Orgasm and How Do You Get or Give One?

What is a “super orgasm,” and how do you get or give one?

The idea that some women are multi-orgasmic was long considered a myth, or possibly a wind-up. Surely, there’s no such thing, we all thought. Wh o are these people, these mutants, these XXX-Men with sexual superpowers? Well, hold onto the headboard because it turns out that not only are multiple orgasms possible, there exists such a thing as The Super Orgasm. Read moreRead more

10 Secrets to Make Sex Unforgettable

Adina Rivers reveals her ten personal secrets to make sex unforgettable.

How to Give a Woman a Sensual Erotic Massage

An erotic massage can be a fun time by itself or lead to something more. Find out how to give your woman a sensual erotic massage.

Everyone loves getting a massage. It relaxes the body, stimulates circulation, and feels great. The only thing that tops a massage is a sensual erotic massage. It’s a great way for you and your lover to have a sexy time together and make her feel good. You don’t need to be a massage therapist, either, to give a sexual erotic massage. Just follow the steps below. Read more

How to Use Your Fingers to Blow Her Mind in Bed

Danielle Page reveals how to use your fingers to blow your woman’s mind in bed.

What’s the problem with those “try these 10 moves tonight, guaranteed to get her off every time” lists? For starters, their success rate is nil. Since every vagina is shaped slightly differently, the moves that get women off vary from lady to lady. Meaning, every woman needs something a little bit different in order to reach the big O. Also, that “something” might not expressly involve your dick — since only 12.9% of women consistently reach orgasm through penetration alone. Read more

Recent Comments

  • Katie: Great article, this is exactly what I have been doing with my husband for years now. All massage’s with...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: More women than you might think actually measure a particularly large penis. That’s how they...
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