About Me

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.

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3 Ways to Find a Third Partner for a Threesome

Lindsay Tigar reveals three proven ways to find a third partner for a threeesome.

Maybe it’s your 40th birthday or you’ve been with your leading lady for 15 years. Or perhaps you’re both just curious and finally brave enough to give it a go. Whatever the reason for deciding to try to have a threesome, let us be the first to congratulate you on adding this (potentially) very hot experience to your sexual history. Even if it turns out to be a one-time thing, as long as you and your girl are on the same page about what it’ll mean (and what it won’t) for your relationship, it could be the rut-buster that brings some fire and energy back to your sexual routine. Read more

10 Tips for Surviving Your First Sex Party

If you’ve been invited to a sex party, aka orgy, Laura Jayne Martin has ten tips to help make your first time a great time.

Orgies are intimidating, and you’re definitely going to have a lot of, um, new experiences the first time you go to one. Don’t let that scare you off! Here are 10 ways to seem like sex parties are so old hat for you. Read more

6 Kama Sutra Techniques That Make Missionary Position Even Better

The Kama Sutra is famous for its sex positions, but it also has techniques that make everyday sex positions like missionary even better.

There’s only one problem with missionary sex: The vast majority of men thrust in the same conventional, in-and-out way.  Same speed, same depth, same hip motion, same everything. In other words, yawn and repeat. What these guys don’t know is that there are much more exciting ways for him to insert his penis. Ways that will create new, pleasurable sensations for both you and him. Take these six ideas from the Kama Sutra, for example. It may be an ancient Hindu text—which explains the strange names like “boar’s blow”—but these techniques certainly hold up in 2017. Read more

6 Herbs for Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Looking to improve your sex life? Take these six  natural herbs to spice things up.

There are many things that can intensify your orgasm, including foreplay.

But did you know that having a simple cup of tea can make you have a more intense, fulfilling orgasm? Read more

How to Tell if a Man Is Good in Bed BEFORE You Get Between the Sheets

Here’s how to tell if a man is good in bed before you take off your clothes and get between the sheets with him.

You can’t tell how good in bed a man is by just his appearance. That would be ridiculous, right? Actually, wrong.

That shy gentleman who took you out to dinner the other night may actually be an animal in the sack. On the other hand, that boisterous dude who took you to a crazy rock concert may be a dud. While there is no way to truly tell until you both hit the sheets, there are a few signals.

Daily Mail writer Tracey Cox lists 13 ways to tell what he may be like in the bedroom.

He’s good in bed if… Read more

6 Secrets to an Unforgettable Threesome

Adina Rivers reveals her six secrets for an unforgettable and powerful threesome

Better Cunnilingus: How to Tongue Her Vagina

This is a technique that your partner may not have had done to her before, so big bonus points to you when you do it.

When giving their lovers oral sex, many women stick to licking the clitoris only. They know that licking the clitoris can produce an intense orgasm, so they stay with the tried and true. However, if you’re feeling a bit naughty and want your lover to have a really mind-blowing orgasm, tonguing her vagina can take oral sex to the next level. Tongue thrusting is an oral sex technique that your lover may never have had used on her, so that makes it exciting all by itself. Read more

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