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Orgasms: What’s the Big Deal?

FOXSexpert Yvonne K. Fulbright takes a contrarian position on orgasms, wondering if they’re overrated, especially as one of life’s experiences.

When it comes to orgasm, ‘What’s the big deal? is rarely ever the reaction. Let’s be honest, humans are spellbound by this riveting response. It’s often hailed as the greatest human experience. You have not truly lived unless you’ve had an orgasm – or have you?

Life is full of intoxicating outbursts of all-consuming excitement, many of which rival reaching climax. Are humans therefore guilty of having played up orgasm as the peak experience? Read more

One Response to Orgasms: What’s the Big Deal?

  • She says: “Life is full of intoxicating outbursts of all-consuming excitement, many of which rival reaching climax”…the thing is, these exciting moments, like being proposed to, or the delivery of your first child, are exciting moments…but they are more spread out.

    The thing about orgasm is, it is all compressed into this 20-50 second explosion…I really don’t know if you could compare it to anything. It is the pleasurable polar opposite of an extreme sharp pain, like getting shot (unlike getting shot, the sensation completely disappears soon..too bad).

    If a man isn’t consistently bringing a woman this orgasm, then I can’t help but believe that she is unsatisfied with a large part of her life and relationship…regardless of where she rates that orgasm on a scale.

    Somebody sent me an email today saying how his relationship is suffering due to bad sex, and I gave him some in-depth advice.

    “How Problems with Sex can lead to Complications in a Relationship…”

    Pass by and share your thoughts!

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