Oral Sex: The Tantric White Tigress Practices
Tantric sex educator Jaiya talks about how some of the Tantric White Tigress oral sex practices resemble porn clichés, such as the “facial,” and she explains why she doesn’t think they are degrading to women within that tradition.
I take her point that a practice is only degrading if you think it is. For example, Jaiya mentions deep throating, which I don’t consider degrading at all, since I get both emotional and sexual pleasure from doing it. However, I believe the purpose of the facial, whether conscious or subconscious, is to degrade the woman. On the other hand, within the White Tigress tradition, it has a purpose that benefits women. Therefore, if my partner and I were both practitioners, I could accept it in the spirit in which it was given.