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Manual Sex: 12 Vaginal Fingering Techniques

Manual sex is a neglected part of many men’s sexual repertoire, yet it’s a surefire way to turn a woman on and even bring her to orgasm. After all, that’s how most women masturbate. You may never become as good at it as she is, but the following twelve vaginal fingering techniques can definitely turn her on and get her off.

Outside the Vagina

Don’t be in a hurry to shove your fingers inside a woman. Many women masturbate to orgasm without any penetration at all. Also, make sure that your fingers are well-lubricated. There is nothing more uncomfortable (and painful) than a dry finger roughly rubbed across a woman’s clitoris or pushed inside her. In most cases, sufficient foreplay  will avoid the problem of dryness, but it never hurts to keep a “tube of lube” handy even for the techniques used outside the vagina.

Tapping

Place the palm of your hand on her mons (the mound where her pubic hair is), and rest your fingers lightly on her vaginal lips. Rest your thumb on her thigh. Lightly but firmly press your palm onto her mons and begin to move your hand in a tiny circular motion. Your palm should not slide too much over her skin during this process. Rather, her skin should move underneath it. Repeat this process until you have done ten circles. You then raise your fingers and lightly tap her vaginal lips about once a second until you have given her ten taps. After giving the taps, rest your hand for five to ten seconds. Then repeat the whole routine over and over.

Labial Massage

Place a well lubricated hand over her labia, fingers pointing towards her anus. Pull up toward the navel and alternate hands. Explore the inner and outer lips with your fingers. Pull gently on one lip and then the other. Rub the outer lips gently between your forefinger and thumb, then the inner lips.

Squeeze and Release

Another form of genital massage can be done by holding a lubricated vaginal lip between your thumb and forefinger. While squeezing just a little, pull your fingers straight away from the woman’s body. Your fingers will end up in the air an inch or two above her body. If she likes this, repeat it often.

Tracing

After applying lubrication, it might be nice to begin with one of the large outer lips. Place the lip between your thumb and forefinger, clasping it at the base where it attaches to the main part of the woman’s body. Then run your fingers (or fingertip) from the lower to upper part of the lip, as though you were tracing one side of a parenthesis. Repeat this as long as your partner’s feedback is positive.

Three Finger Petting

Use your three longest fingers, with your middle finger gliding along the outside of her vaginal opening and your other two fingers running along the area where her thigh meets her labia.

Rubbing the Clitoris

Women often masturbate by rubbing a finger or two over their clitoris, sometimes “through” the skin of their inner or outer lips, in a circular or back-and-forth motion. Many women find direct touch of the clitoris too intense. Start with light pressure on the clitoral area. You can apply more pressure if she seems to want it, or she asks you to.

Inside the Vagina

Hitching a Ride

Try inserting your first two fingers into her vagina, then arch your thumb back hitchhiker style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. Now wriggle, twist, thrust, and vibrate your hand to drive her wild.

Push Here to Start

From the rear, gently insert one finger into her vagina and, when she’s ready, insert a second. Then take your thumb and place it against her anus, but don’t insert it. Press against her anus while you move your fingers inside her vagina.

Around the Cervix

A woman’s cervix can usually be found in the upper rear part of her vagina. The cervix feels like a little dome of tissue, and may also have a small cleft in the middle, like your chin. Carefully stimulate the area surrounding the cervix. Some women may enjoy this and want you to do it more often while others won’t.

Inside and Outside

Lay your free hand over the lower part of your partner’s abdomen. Experiment by applying different kinds of pressure with the top hand while fingers from your other hand are inside her vagina.

In and Out with a Twist

Using one or more fingers, massage in and out while twisting at the wrist.

Fast and Furious

Some women might need and want good, hard, deep, vigorous thrusting finger penetration. However, always start with a slow and steady rhythm at first, and then pick up the pace if she seems to want it, or she asks you to.

Fingering a woman is not only great foreplay for sexual intercourse, but fun and pleasurable in and of itself. One advantage of using your hands to stimulate her is that you can use your mouth for kissing or licking or sucking her nipples. If you haven’t been “letting your fingers do the walking,” start changing that the next time you’re in bed with your woman.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being “sure” if he has finally given his woman a climax. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

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