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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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Is She Faking Her Orgasm?

Sex educator Emily Nagoski says that just because her orgasms are not “porn perfect” doesn’t mean she’s faking it.

Thanks to Meg Ryan’s famous scene in “When Harry Met Sally,” we’ve witnessed just how easy it is for women to fake an orgasm.

And really, all your partner needs to do is watch a few minutes of porn to see how to “have what she’s having.” Think she can’t fool you? Think again. Some colleagues of mine recently found, in an as-yet unpublished study, that one-quarter of the men they surveyed believed that porn — fake tans, fake breasts, fake orgasms, and all — depicts a realistic representation of women’s sexuality. As a sex educator and author, I find that statistic disturbing, but not surprising, and all this week I’ll be in the forum at Good in Bed to answer questions and provide. Read more

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