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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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Is Pegging the New Blow Job?

Is pegging the new blow job? Sex experts think that more straight men are exploring a formerly taboo hot spot. I discussed this topic in my post Why Do Some Couples Enjoy Bend Over Boyfriend?

I was sitting around the fire pit in my backyard with a handful of straight male friends when drunken conversation inevitably turned to sex. The perverted powwow officially began when one friend, let’s call him Freddy, announced something to the effect of, “Having your prostate milked is awesome.”

I nearly choked on my beer. Someone else chimed in: “It’s the male g-spot.” Another head nodded. A female friend walked into our circle at that moment and nonchalantly volunteered: “Yeah, my ex-boyfriend liked me to stick a finger in his butt.”

Well, then. It wasn’t the first time I’d heard young heterosexual men talking about being on the receiving end of a wandering finger, or female friends dishing on their male partners’ self-directed anal fixation, but the consensus in the room was startling nonetheless. For perhaps the first time in my life, I felt like a sexual square. Read more

8 Responses to Is Pegging the New Blow Job?

  • eammon says:

    I think it would be great if my wife did this. I definitely not gay but have found prostate stimulation out of this world. My wife doesnt do it though. I use a p stimulator and have learned to rock on it. It feels great. My wife is very reluctant to put her finger in my rear and wont. I am thinking about bringing up the idea of her using a toy instead. It may take some time for her to warm up to the idea.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Remember that prostate massage is healthful for a man. She could think of it as therapy :).

  • eammon says:

    I had thought of approaching her with that in mind. I am just not sure if she would think it is outside the comfort zone of acceptable behavior in the bedroom. The comfort zone is rather small. All I know it feels good and I am not ashamed to say it here, only with my wife.

  • eammon says:

    I did muster the courage to talk with my wife about this, thanks for the support. She was not receptive to it at all and even commented it was gross. She did acknowledge that she knows I am not gay and knows it is not a practice limited to gays only. I did mention the health benefits to which she still said no. However, she did say that if I wanted to do it myself she was okay with it. Oh well. I tried. I guess it will just go as an unfulfilled desire.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Not necessarily. You planted the seed in her mind. Give it time to grow.

  • eammon says:

    really?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Bring the subject up from time to time. Of course, you need to have a sex toy available for her to use instead of her finger. You might try telling her that it’s awkward and a bit uncomfortable to do prostate massage on yourself.

  • eammon says:

    okay, I’ll try that. I may not have told you but we have been married for over 30 years. I think it is easy to get into a boring sex pattern that can be difficult to get out of. Inn other words, thinking outside the box has its’ challenges. I think the world is much different than it was 35 years ago, especially in regards to sex, sexual expression and of course, the openess of discussion on the web. Thanks for your advice

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