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Is Bigger Always Better? 7 Women Weigh in on the Size-Matters Debate

Is bigger always better in bed? Or is it all about technique? Seven women get real about your package.

It’s the age-old question: Is bigger better? Well, is it? It seems that when it comes to penis size men are far more concerned than women when it comes to the size of their member. You often hear women say that it’s all about how you use it, but still, size has to come into play at some point — doesn’t it?

We asked a few women their thoughts on penis size. We asked them to be as honest as possible, because we really want to know — we ALL want to know once and for all. Hopefully, with the women’s insight below, we’re one step closer to figuring out if bigger truly is better or if technique is the biggest winner of all. Read more

6 Responses to Is Bigger Always Better? 7 Women Weigh in on the Size-Matters Debate

  • Rod says:

    Size matters obviously if me have different size penises then girls are naturally going to have different size vaginas. Also I’ve read where the average size of the vagina is quite a bit bigger than the average penis. So it would only be obvious there’s going to be some tuff reaches for us guys!

  • Pat says:

    size might matter, but I can have just as much fun with my little old 10 incher as other guys can with their big dicks.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    You may have fun, but does she?

  • Jen says:

    @Rod Women’s vaginas are only a few inches long but expand when sexually stimulated. Most of the nerve endings in the vagina are also located at the bottom 1/3 of the vagina. So yes in theory a smaller guy can satisfy a women if he positions himself to hit the right spots. Not to mention a lot of women don’t reach orgasm from penetrative sex alone. There are some women who like deep penetration that hits posterior or anterior fornix depending on position. You need to be careful when you do this since when my guy tried this it would sometimes hit my cervix and that is quite painful.

    Every women is different but for myself, yes I can have orgasms from sex but a guy who is skilled at using his fingers and tongue give me my best orgasms. So for me size isn’t a big deal. In fact I wouldn’t mind if my guy was a bit smaller. That being said I have met a few who have voiced being size queens. In the end just make the best with what you have.

  • Rod says:

    Hi Jen, its very true good for play can make up for any short coming, but I think there is a limit to what your going to accomplish. I think sex is also about having fun as well and exploration is very important for others. Me and my wife started exploring years ago with inviting my best friend who is very well endowed. I suggested having a threesome telling my wife I wanted to experience and enjoy his bigger cock. My wife said she didn’t want to do it because she was afraid it would ruin our relationship. But over time I made her feel I was secure enough to handle it, she finally told me she was wanting to experience a threesome and what a bigger cock felt like. My wife obviously enjoyed it allot both having two men worship her body at the same time and how the feeling of being stretched and filled by a big cock. We enjoy having great sex and after being married for over 16 years and having stared this shortly after getting married. My wife and I have sex all the time we both hear from friends married longer and for a shorter period of time who only have sex a few times a years. Some have a little more than others but none come close to us most are just rare ocations.

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