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Intense Fellatio: How to Give Your Man TOTAL Satisfaction

If you are a woman who enjoys performing fellatio on your man, you’re probably also interested in ways to make it even better for him. Fellatio feels good all by itself, but if you make your man feel good about himself, too, you can give him an even more intense experience. Following the five steps below will leave your man completely satisfied in more ways than one.

1) Teasing
The first touches of your mouth can give your man the most incredible sensations. Give him some time to enjoy them and anticipate what is to “come.” If you get the chance to pull out his penis yourself, try gently pulling down his underwear so that you reveal only the head. Then guide his penis to your mouth, and tease him with a couple of kisses before you pull his underwear all the way down and move in for a closer lick. Ever so slowly, glide the tip of your tongue up over the head, down the shaft and back up again. Then take the whole head into your mouth for one full suck, and let it pop out with a loud, sexy “slurp.” All this attention communicates the idea to him that you’re really excited about seeing and handling his penis, which will please him to no end.

2) Varying stimulation
When a particular sensation is repeated for too long, the body becomes numb to it, so you want to vary your stimulation.  That doesn’t mean you have to constantly change what you’re doing, especially if he’s liking it, but just don’t keep doing the same thing for too long.  One way to vary stimulation that isn’t really a technique is to use your tongue more. This soft, flexible organ is what makes fellatio unique, so use it! (If you want to vary your fellatio repertoire, you can check my posts 5 Advanced Fellatio Techniques and 8 Fellatio Tricks That Drive Men Wild for some ideas.)

3) Extending stimulation
Generally speaking, the longer sexual stimulation lasts, the more intense the orgasm. One thing you can do to extend stimulation  is to bring your man to the edge of ejaculation several times before you let him finally ejaculate. When you feel that he’ getting close to climax,  take his penis out of your mouth immediately.  If you can do this several times before letting him ejaculate, his orgasm will be super-intense. Try to look up at him while you do it and then smile before you put his penis back in your mouth. (This is a good time to switch techniques.)

4) Keep up the stimulation at climax
If your man is ready to ejaculate, keep doing whatever you were doing that got him to that point. That’s what will take him over the edge.  Experimenting and variety are great, but as the moment of orgasm approaches, keep the pressure on and the rhythm going. You should be pumping fast and furiously with your mouth (and your hand if you can’t move fast enough with your mouth). If he wants you to do something else, he’ll tell you, but if it feels like he’s ready to climax, don’t stop what you’re doing until he finishes.

5) Swallow
Your man may say he doesn’t care whether you swallow (so you won’t quit giving him fellatio), but he does. To a man, swallowing his semen means acceptance. Spitting it out means rejection. Continuing to suck through the orgasm – “sucking him dry” – leaves him both physically and emotionally satisfied.  (If you’re not a swallower yet, my post 7 Tips for Swallowing Semen gives women suggestions for learning this essential oral sex skill.)

After he finishes ejaculating, you can make it even better for him by”milking” his penis, squeezing at the base and sliding your hand up the shaft toward the head to get the last bit of semen out, and then licking his penis clean. When you’re finished, take your hands and mouth away from his penis slowly to communicate that you’re sorry that it’s over. Smiling at him and saying something nice about his penis or how big a load he had (if you sincerely mean it) will make him feel even better than he already does.

Fellatio can be an empowering experience for a woman. You have your man’s most precious organ in your mouth, and you have control over his pleasure. If you use your power the right way, you can give him, not only physical satisfaction, but also emotional satisfaction. That’s what I mean by total satisfaction.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

6 Responses to Intense Fellatio: How to Give Your Man TOTAL Satisfaction

  • eammon says:

    I have to tell you, I almost cum by reading that. I can say that any woman that follows that method will have her man doing anything for her including taking out the trash without being told to do so. My wife has never given me oral like that but it would be nice. It sounds just like everything I imagine it would be including the milking part. OHHHH GOD!!!!!!

  • Jeff says:

    as you sense climax approaching the edge, is there a last sensation felt that lets you know the shooting of semen is imminent or is it somewhat sudden?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I guess I could add “with one exception” :).

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Usually, the penis hardens and stiffens a bit just before ejaculation.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    The post was meant to be more instructive than exciting, but I suppose it can be both :).

  • eammon says:

    I have read there are guys that may not like receiving oral. I am not one of them. I love receiving from wifey. My only problem is that I get really exciting when I cum and tend to hold onto her head. I think it may gag her at times. That is the only problem I have with it. The best part of receiving is the giving I pleasure her with before she returns the pleasure to me. WOW!!!

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