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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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How to Turn Your Man into a Sex Genius

To some men, a woman’s body is a wonderland: they wonder where and how to touch you. Sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., explains how to teach your man how to turn you on without seeming to be critical of his lovemaking skills.

In my 10 years as a sex therapist and author, I’ve asked thousands of men where a woman’s clitoris is, and more than half of them believe (incorrectly!) that it’s located deep within the vagina.

That may not be a shock — chances are, you’ve been with a guy who couldn’t conceal his clitoral cluelessness. But you might wonder where the puzzlement stems from. Well, you can blame it on everything from tall tales told in locker rooms to ex-girlfriends who faked it to the boggling female body, with its small, sometimes hidden parts.

Even if a guy makes it into the vicinity of this important pleasure zone, he could still miss the mark because he is too nervous to really check you out down there or doesn’t get how to stroke you right. Or logistics, such as the room being too dark, prevent it. But if your man’s what I call ill-cliterate, don’t write him off as a lost cause — there are ways to school him gently on the techniques that cause your toes to curl. Read more

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  • Svetlana Ivanova: Depends on the woman.
  • Fox2: Would that be most probably wouldn’t feel it? I have seen you say elsewhere that less than 5″ means...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: Some may, but most probably won’t. For some women in long-term relationships, penetration is...
  • Fox2: Not sure if commenting is working at the moment. Thanks but even though these positions will help maximise my...
  • Svetlana Ivanova: These positions help maximize what you have, whatever that is.
  • Fox: Would these positions help with a penis 4-4.5inches long and around 4inches around? Or do you need to be packing...
  • BOB: FUR
  • Svetlana Ivanova: If a woman doesn’t want to please the man she’s with, she’s with the wrong man.
  • Jane Doe: This article not only implies that all men want submissive partners, it tells women to take on a persona....
  • Svetlana Ivanova: It isn’t misogynistic at all. It’s realistic and sex-positive.