How to Milk Your Man’s Penis with the Vaginal Squeeze
Women throughout history have been known for their sexual tricks and abilities. One of the most famous female “sex tricks” is the vaginal squeeze. It has different names in different cultures and countries. In India it is called the pompoir, the Arabic word for it is the Kabbazah (to clasp), and in the Far East it is known as the Singapore Kiss. They all refer to a woman developing strength and control of her vaginal muscles.
To develop the strong PC muscles needed to do the vaginal squeeze, follow the program in my post Vaginal Strengthening Exercises for More Powerful Orgasms. You can practice PC muscle exercises while driving, standing in line, or lying on the sofa watching television. After being on this program for 4-8 weeks you should have dramatically increased your PC muscle strength.
As you strengthen your vaginal muscles, you may notice that you can isolate two different sets of muscles, and you can flex them in isolation, too. When the PC muscles are strong, they have the ability to sort of ripple when they are squeezing. This also happens during an intense orgasm in a woman. The rippling causes a kind of milking action – which is felt by the penis – that starts at one end and moves along the vagina.
To perform the vaginal squeeze, simply flex your PC muscles in a continuous pattern of tightening (as you pull him inside) and releasing (as you push him out). You can also use your PC muscles to give your man the sensation of being sucked into you during intercourse. As the head of his penis is about to enter you, exhale completely. Then, as the head enters, breath in deeply while at the same time strongly contracting your PC muscles.
The vaginal squeeze is most effective when the man does not thrust vigorously. For greater control, shift to the woman on top position (if you’re not there already). Vary the sensations by incorporating shallow and deep penetration along with the squeezing and relaxing.
As your man nears ejaculation, squeeze as fast as you can. When you have developed strong PC muscles, you can make him feel as if the ejaculate is being pulled from his body. A woman who truly is expert at using her vaginal muscles can bring a man to orgasm simply by massaging his penis with her vagina without moving her body.
Men say the sensation of penile milking with a strong vagina is the ultimate sexual experience, and they prefer it over oral stimulation. After experiencing the vaginal squeeze, he might forget his own name, but he’ll never forget yours.
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Tags: Kabbazah, pompoir, Sex Techniques, sex tricks, Singapore Kiss, vaginal squeeze

I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. My sexual history and preferences are detailed in my post
August 19th, 2008 at 10:19 am
Great post. Very informative.
September 20th, 2008 at 7:06 am
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May 4th, 2009 at 6:40 pm
I’m trying to research pompoir/Kabbazah techniques and exercises. From what I’ve gathered, it’s not as simple as kegels, but a “rippling” of the three bands of vaginal muscles. Any other links are appreciated.
Thanks!
June 7th, 2009 at 5:02 am
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July 31st, 2009 at 3:52 pm
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