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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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How to Have a Vaginal Orgasm

The Sexademic gives advice to a woman who wants an orgasm from penetrative sex, and suggests that pressure may be better than friction.

… If you want to experiment with vaginal stimulation, keep in mind that the vagina responds more to pressure than to friction. That whole in-n-out, pumpy pumpy penetrative sex usually provides more friction than pressure. Try having a partner take his fingers and make slow wiping and pressing motions inside of your vagina. (Remember: the outer 1/3 of the vagina tends to be the most sensitive). During penetrative sex, instead of thrusting, your partner can try moving his hips in a vertical circular motion…like he’s painting circles with his hips. Read more

I mention the above technique in my post How to Properly Screw a Woman. Another technique to try is the Friction Zone Technique, which is more of an up-and-down motion. If you’re a woman who doesn’t have orgasms from penetrative sex, have your partner try the techniques in these two posts instead of the old “in-n-out.”  You may be in for an amazing surprise!

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