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I came to the U.S. at age of 12 with my mother. We settled in sunny Florida, which was quite a contrast to Minsk. I have always been fascinated by sex and relationships. Sex Secrets is where I share sex advice, experiences, news, and sometimes a little humor. If you have a question about sex that you prefer not to post in the comments, you can email me at svetlanaivano(at)yahoo.com.
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How to Give Fellatio to a Big Penis

How do you give felltio to a big penis? Although the overwhelming majority of penises are average or small, about one out of six men have a big one, so this is a question that affects a lot of women. The short answer is that you vary your fellatio techniques to compensate for the fact that your mouth is only so big. Just how you do that depends on whether your partner’s penis is long, thick, or long and thick.

Long Penis

The average penis length is 5-7 inches erect, so penises over 7 inches long are considered above average. Longer penises pose the issue of being able to stimulate of the shaft in a satisfying manner, especially if you cannot deep throat him and get him all the way into your mouth and throat. In order to properly stimulate a longer penis you need to use your mouth, throat, and your hands.

Even if you can deep throat him, he will still need further stimulation in order to feel properly attended to. The trick is to get the penis extremely slick with saliva in order to comfortably stimulate him with your hands as well as your mouth. Alternate sliding him down into your throat while wrapping your hand around his penis shaft and stroking, licking, and sucking continuously. Take a few times to sink him down into your throat if you can, and use your hands to stimulate the part that won’t fit into your mouth. The key is to make it coordinated so that he can almost not tell where your hands end and your mouth begins.

Thick Penis

It is not just penis length that varies, it is also the girth or thickness of the penis. Some men are quite thick, which can actually be a bigger obstacle when giving fellatio than length because your mouth will only open up so wide. So, how do you handle a penis that is thicker than average?

First, go slowly in order to let your mouth adjust to his girth. Relax your lips! Tense lips do not stretch, so you need to be relaxed as you take him in. Tease it and see exactly how wide you will have to open your mouth.

Second, find a comfortable position. Go for a straight on approach such as kneeling. This allows you to relax your lips and open more widely as well as control those teeth!

Third, use your hands. Some penises become thicker at the base (closer to the balls) so it may be hard to get all of him into your mouth, Whatever you do, do not overextend your mouth in an effort to get him in as this may cause pain in the jaw joints. Work as much into your mouth as you can, using stronger suction to replace being able to get him into your mouth as far. Supplement your mouth with a well-lubricated hand to stroke and please what portions of him are not in your mouth. For lube, saliva is usually fine, but oral sex lubes can be a fun alternative.

Long and Thick Penis

If your partner is blessed with a penis that is longer than average (7 plus inches) and thicker than average, you may have your work cut out for you. Giving a blow job to a man who is both long and thick is exciting, but it does take some skill.

First, accept that you may not be able to get it all in. Yes, you want to try, but when you can’t, you just can’t! Second, stay relaxed. If you are tense or anxious, your facial muscles will not stretch, and you will not be able to get him into your mouth comfortably. Third, use all the tricks in your repertoire! Use your mouth, tongue, lips, throat, and hands!

One other issue tthat some women might have with a big penis is that it is more likely to trigger the gag reflex than an average or small one. My article How to Deep Throat Without Gagging can help overcome that problem even if you are not trying to deep throat. Of course, men love to hear women gag on their penises, so you may just want to let it happen if it does.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

 

 

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