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How to Give a Double Blow Job

Two girls one guyWhether you call it fellatio, a blow job, or giving head, almost all men LOVE oral sex, and many women love giving it. One way to have even more fun with oral sex is to give a double blow job. A double blow job is two women giving fellatio to one man. To give a double blow job, you need two things: First, you need a man who deserves to get one. Second, you need a partner who thinks giving a double blow job would be fun. Ideally, she also likes the man, or is a good enough friend to you that she wants to help you please him.

A man enjoys a double blow job for two reasons: First of all, he gets double the physical stimulation that he gets from one woman sucking him off, which should result in even more enjoyment and a more explosive ejaculation. He also gets the emotional satisfaction of having two women taking care of his penis, which should give him a big ego boost.

When giving a double blow job, it’s important for both women to stay active. You could take turns, with one of you giving fellatio while the other watches, but that doesn’t give the man double the physical stimulation the way both of you working together does. Instead of taking turns, one of you can work on the head of the penis while the other licks the shaft, or one of you can suck the penis while the other licks and sucks the balls. Take turns doing one or the other, but both of you should be pleasuring him at the simultaneously as much as possible.

Since the ejaculation is the climax of the blow job, you and your partner might want to decide in advance who gets the semen so neither of you feels cheated. You could decide that the one who gets the man off gets the semen. On the other hand, both of you worked to get him there, so sharing might be more fair. The one who gets the mouthful can let some dribble back onto the penis for the other to lick up, which he will really like, or you can share by tongue kissing each other. He will like that too.

If neither of these appeals to you, this is one time when a facial makes sense. When the man is about to ejaculate, the one who has his penis in her mouth should take it out and finish him off with her hand. letting his semen spray onto your faces and tongues. He will really like that.

Giving a double blow job lets you give a special treat to a man you like. It also can be a bonding experience for you and your friend. You and she have probably done a lot of fun things together, but watching her give head and letting her watch you is something different and intimate.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

26 Responses to How to Give a Double Blow Job

  • Saskia says:

    Hi there, just got to this website by coincidence…

    I’ve had a couple of threesomes with my husband (then boyfriend) before we got married and got kids.

    Getting a blowjob from the two girls was indeed his favorite and we loved it too… Very hot to see him go so crazy. I also found it hot to hold the penis for her and watch her go at it. So did she. He loved that too. Or to tongue kiss him while she was blowing him. If you have an extra girl there is so much extra you can do!

    He was always on fire when we had a threesome. That is the hot thing about it, it’s sex, sex, sex!

    Since we got married we haven’t done this any more. Also kinda complicated now thatv we have little kids. I’d love to do this again, so would he. Maybe some day…

    Take care,

    Saskia

  • Andrea says:

    Hey! :) I’ve been wanting to try this with my boyfriend, and I decided to do it as his 18th birthday gift, but I don’t know how to go about finding a girl that’d be willing to do it? We both have never done anything like this before, and he’s encouraging me to find someone, which I would happily do, if I knew how to ask someone about it? Ha, if you could get back to me, that’d be great!

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I would only ask a woman with whom you’re comfortable talking about sex, but just tell her that you want to fulfill your boyfriend’s fantasy for his birthday and would she like to help. Then tell her what you have in mind and find out if she’s up for it. A blow job is like having a threesome, so more women might be willing to go along.

  • Charlie says:

    This is such a great article and so true. From a guy’s perspective, how would he discuss this fantasy with a woman – say a new girlfriend? Could it be a birthday treat? And how would the couple decide upon a lady friend to participate?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    It’s tricky because a woman is likely to take it that you’re dissatisfied with her. A trading fantasies conversation might be the best way to bring it up. She may have some exciting ideas too. Let her pick the woman. That gives her more control and relieves suspicion that you’re seeking a replacement for her.

  • Charlie says:

    Oh good point! Yes, I want to convey it’s a fantasy. Literally the thought of a double blowjob is so hot? And I’d love her to be part of it?, so how would you have that trading fantasies conversation? Is she likely to pick a friend to join us as you mention above?

  • Jack says:

    First fantastic article. Seriously!! This is so true, that he would love the ending part you suggest. Also for a guy, your massaging both down there and also his ego.

    How would a guy flirt with say a female friend (long distance and visiting) and enjoy a double blowjob?

  • Nisha says:

    This is so good. Always had a desire to be with another woman too and also watch him go wild at two of us sucking him at the same time!

    How do you bring this up though in conversation? Can you give an example of a way to do this? Very unsure how to bring it up and how best to choose someone? I know that a few of my friends are also attractive?

  • Tim Lee says:

    Well written and spot on! If you’re in a relationship with a great girl who you really value, how would you bring this up as a fantasy to make reallity?

    I would seriously love a double blowjob, the thought is so hot – literally it’s heaven right. But not sure how to bring it up, what words to say?

    I have occasionally fantasized about her and a few of her friends doing this?! Even one female friend of mine. It was all fantasy of course. It was because they were all getting huggy and very close with my girl I guess.

    But how to know whether this is something that could happen and both of us enjoy it? Also in terms of the guy’s pov, how does he ensure both girls are satisfied during and at the end?

  • Charlie says:

    Good point and again great article!

    Ok, so how do you bring up a fantasies conversation and then the double blowjob? What exactly to say?

    If she asks about who, or how to suggest she chooses?
    How to keep her excited during the act so she’s knows you’re satisfied with her also?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I can’t tell you how to start a conversation about sex fantasies with your girlfriend, You know her. I don’t. Just make it clear that it’s the experience you’re fantasizing about, not another woman. If she is interested, she will most likely pick a friend.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I think you’re asking how to bring it up with a female friend? It should be a friend with whom you’re comfortable discussing relationships and sexual topics. If she’s a little wild or has been in the past, so much the better. Tell her that you’d like to do something special for your boyfriend or husband and ask if she would be willing to help. If she is, tell her your idea. If you present it as a fun idea you heard about, even if she doesn’t want to, it should be no harm done.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    If it does happen, provide feedback and praise to both women during and after the double blow job.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Well, you need two women for for a double blow job. If it’s a woman from whom you already receive fellatio, you could tell her that her blow jobs are so fantastic it makes you wonder what a double blow job would feel like.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Just tell her that you want her to choose because you want her to have fun with her friend. To keep her satisfied provide positive feedback and praise during and after the blow job.

  • Roger says:

    Super article Svetlana!

    This is so true about guys loving this. How would you ask/approach a female friend (single) about this if you’re also single?

    And if she’s eating a banana, and you think it’s hot, can you make a comment on it in a light way?

  • Sultan says:

    Getting a double blowjob is fun…until your partner gets jealous. From my pas experience, when my GF would agree for a double blowjob, it would go fine at first, but then she would start feeling insecure while im actually receiving the bj. It was all a matter of a bit convincing and assuring her that there is nothing to be insecure about, and if she doesn’t like it, we can stop right away. Your opinions Ms. Svetlana?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    There are no magic words or phrases to use. If you have no idea how to ask, you’re probably not close enough with her to approach her about a double blow job. In any case, make your interest about the experience of double stimulation, not about having two women.

    Unless, you’re already intimate with a woman, telling her that eating a banana is sexy will probably sound weird or creepy. Believe it or not, most women aren’t thinking about sucking a penis when they eat a banana. If you’ve already received a blow job from a woman, saying something like that might get a smile or laugh from her.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Your partner definitely doesn’t want to feel that your interest in a double blow job is due to any dissatisfaction with her.

  • Sultan says:

    Yes I totally agree with you!

  • Rahul says:

    Great article Svetlana! This is definitely a dream experience.

    If you are visiting a female friend who you have a great rapport with and there is a little flirtation now and again too, is there any way to discuss sharing this experience with her? I am somewhat nervous just as she is, though she has some wilder friends.

    Is there a way to bring up the topic of double stimulation and enjoy this together?

    As for someone above who commented on a female eating a banana, I think it would have to be done in tactful and polite, light way. I mean, if you’re good friends, and it’s just the two of you, could you maybe make a joke about it? Something like, wish i were that banana?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    If you have great rapport with your female friend, I suppose you should be able to discuss anything, but I wouldn’t bring up a double blow job to a woman who has never given you fellatio before. “Give me a blow job, and by the way, bring a friend,” might not go over too well. Take things one step at a time.

  • Rahul says:

    Thanks Svetlana. Ok, so how would you suggest taking it one step at a time with the friend, given the rapport? How to start? She’s super nice and pretty, but a little nervous to tell her I think so?

    As for thinking about her and double stimulation..how to progress to there?

  • Rahul says:

    Ok, so what to do step by step as you say?

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    There are no magic words or phrases, nor step-by-step directions to get a double blow job. Although you can indicate your interest, the best way to get a double blow job is to please a woman so well that she wants to give you a special treat in return.

  • John says:

    Hi Svetlana,

    I have come across this googling for “double blowjob” as I received this last weekend for my 45th birthday, as a surprise.

    We were all quite nervous at first but a long make-out solved that. You describe very well how it feels for a man, but I’d like to add that is really, really hot to see the women connect with each other, get tuned in with each other and work together. That is so satisfying. It was a great experience that both me and my wife really enjoyed.

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