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How to Finger a Woman: 6 Powerful Techniques

ForeplayIt goes without saying that in the bedroom, every man wants to be the best his partner has ever had. However, a lot of men have confided that bringing a woman to orgasm is one of the hardest thing they can ever think of doing. It is so bad that there are some men who have never brought their women to a climax. Actually, bringing a woman to orgasm isn’t difficult at all. It is definitely not as hard as it is portrayed.

One of the best ways to bring a woman to orgasm is the same way she uses to herself off. Using your fingers on a woman’s vagina can reap amazing results. However, there’s one thing that’s certain: You can’t just rub her clitoris or shove your finger inside her without ensuring arousal first. Massage her inner thighs, run your hands up her stomach and over her breasts, suck on her nipples… touch every spot except her vagina so that when you do touch it, it will be an electrifying touch.

There’s no one fingering method that works for every woman, but these six techniques are tried and true:


Put your index and middle fingers together and place them over the top of her clitoris, and then rub her in slow, sexy circles. Vary your speed and pressure (not too hard) until you find something that drives her wild. Many women masturbate exactly like this, so don’t be surprised if her body responds and she orgasms quickly.

Figure Eight

Use one or more fingers to glide up, over and around her clitoral area, tracing the number eight. You’ll cover the clitoris and the inner labia, an area that has nerve endings within its walls, which some women find even more arousing than the clitoris.

Up and Down

Sandwich her clitoral hood in between your index and middle fingers and rub them up and down at a consistent speed. Keep your touch gentle. The clitoris and all its surrounding areas are VERY sensitive to touch.

Crescent Moon

Stick your thumb in her Vagina and push against the upper wall with it, to put some stimulation on the G-spot.  Your palm should be the clitoris so that you can push down on it to provide pressure, which provides intense stimulation.

Palm Press

Lie beside her and push the bottom of your palm slightly into her clitoris, with your fingers draped over her whole vagina.  Stick a finger or two into her vagina and stimulate the G-spot while lightly putting pressure on her clitoris with your palm

Thumbs Up

Stick your first two fingers in her vagina, and point your thumb up, resting on the clitoris.  Do circles on the clitoris with your thumb while fingering her. This should give her a POWERFUL orgasm.

Experiment with these techniques until you find one that really strikes a chord with your woman.  When you notice higher levels of arousal, keep that particular stimulation up. You may feel like switching it up slightly as she gets close to her climax, but you may wind up just weakening or ruining her orgasm. Stay with what got you there, and continue it on through her orgasm.

Did you know that only 25% of women achieve orgasm from sex? If you can’t satisfy a woman in bed, what are the chances she’ll BEG you to get naked? To discover the proven secrets to make her climax more often and with greater intensity, even if you don’t have a big penis, a great body, and even if she’s never had an orgasm before, click here.

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