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How to Finger a Girl for the First Time

FingeringSo, you think a girl is going to let you finger her. Fingering can be very pleasurable to a girl. It can even give her an orgasm. On the other hand, if you don’t do it correctly, nothing will happen, and you might even hurt her.  Fingering a girl isn’t rocket science, but you can’t just go shoving your fingers into her either. To have the best experience for both of you, follow these five tips for fingering a girl for the first time. 

1) Warm her up.

You can’t just stick your hand inside a girl’s panties and expect her to like it. You have to get her warmed up first. Kissing is always good. Try playing with her breasts. Stroke her back, butt, and her inner thighs before moving your attention to her vagina. Putting your hand between her legs should seem like a natural next step to her – not a lunge at her crotch.

2) Massage her clitoris.

Begin by gently massaging her pubic mound. Below the mound, on the upper part of her vagina, feel for the clitoris. It should be a bean-like bump covered by a small hood. Try massaging it gently in a circular motion.

3) Feel the lips of her vagina.

Below the clitoris, using just one finger, you will be able to feel fleshy folds of skin on either side of her vagina. These are the vaginal lips or labia. Feel for wetness. This is a good way to determine how aroused she is. Then, apply some lubricationt to the tip of your finger. This will help your finger slide into her opening smoothly. When your finger is nice and wet, tease her clitoris with it. Then, rub around the outer vaginal opening. That is a very sensitive spot for some girls.

4) Insert your finger.

You should feel her becoming wetter as you continue. This means that she likes what you are doing. At this time, you can slowly slide a finger into her vagina.  You can put in up to your second knuckle. The positioning of your hand is very important. If she’s lying on her back, your palm should be facing upward. Then, begin to slowly move your finger in and out of her. While you do this, you can continue to massage her clitoris using your thumb.

Pay attention to her to make sure she is enjoying herself. Let her sounds and body reactions be the indicators for what you should do. Most girls are too shy to give suggestions, but if she does ask you to do something, do it!

5) Bring her to orgasm.

By this point, she should be moving her hips against your hand. Try to time the up and down motion of your fingers to meet her thrusts. The correct rhythm will help her climax faster..  You should feel her tighten up as well as moan as she nears orgasm. Continue on with the same rhythm until after she has climaxed.

Congratulations! You’ve successfully fingered a girl for the first time.  Fingering can be a fun and exciting way to advance your sexual relationship. If you do this well, eventually she may want you to try some other things with her.

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