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Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It

coupleDeep throat is a form of oral sex in which the entire length of the erect penis is taken into the mouth. The pleasure of deep throating is created by the ring of tightness around the circumference of the penis just below the head, with the most intense sensation focused on the sensitive underside of the penis where the head joins the shaft. Since the average erect penis is longer than the average mouth is deep, deep throat requires suppressing the gag reflex in order to partially swallow the end of the penis. In order to perform this type of oral sex, the penis recipient controls all the muscles at the back of the throat and flattens the tongue, while gradually inserting the erect penis completely.

To start with, the penis must be thoroughly lubricated. An erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat if it’s slick with saliva. Since the saliva in the back of your throat is somewhat thicker than what you have in the front of it, begin by pressing the penis as far as it will just uncomfortably go into your mouth and rest it there. Pause for 30-45 seconds, come up for air, lick and suck a little bit, and do it again. After a minute or so of this pressing, you should have a nice pool of lubrication in your mouth.

The biggest obstacle to taking all of his penis down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your throat. So the first thing to do is get the penis past that angle. You’ll want to be in position where you can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge with your body sprawled across the bed so that your head is tipped sharply back. This position will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will allow the penis to slide in deeper.

Once you’re in position, extend the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. Extending your tongue helps flatten the back of your tongue. Then open your throat wide as if you were yawning. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your throat open will counter the gag reflex and will create a larger opening for the penis to enter. Next, take a deep breath, and slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible, and then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as necessary.

When you get to the point where the head actually enters the throat, you may feel a little resistance, and you will need to give a little extra push to get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a moment, then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further. Then pull your tongue back into your mouth, pulling the penis along with it. Eventually, you’ll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat. Roll your eyes upwards to prevent the tear ducts from overreacting.

DON’T take a deep breath before you push the penis back into your throat. Taking in a deep breath decreases the amount of penis that you can take into your throat. Breathe normally and stop just before the penis actually goes into your throat and you begin the swallowing motions with your tongue. At first, do not leave him in your throat too long. Bring him in and let him out. Deep throating does not necessarily mean holding your man’s penis deep in your throat continuously though you can do that as long as you’re comfortable.

Deep throating can make swallowing semen easier since the ejaculate may bypass most of the tongue and taste buds, depending on the depth of penetration at the time of release. If the penis is held completely inside the mouth and throat as the man releases ( i.e., with the woman’s lips pressed firmly against the man’s abdomen and scrotum), the semen may be released into the stomach without the recipient having to swallow.

While learning to deep throat, it’s better that you you control the depth and frequency of penetration. After you’ve become very comfortable with taking a penis deep into your throat, you’ll be able to accept a more passive role and let your partner control the depth. Actively thrusting the penis into the mouth of a partner is called irrumatio. An excellent position for this is with you lying on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed. In this position, your partner will be able to put his penis in as deeply as he wishes. This position also allows him to watch your throat expand and bulge as his penis slides in deep. For more about this sexual practice, read my tutorial Irrumatio: Even Better Than Fellatio?

There are lots of ways to give your lover vast amounts of oral pleasure without him entering your throat, but it’s worth trying. The key thing to remember when learning to deep throat your man is that practice makes perfect. No one did this technique perfectly the first, second, or even third time they tried. Once you’ve mastered deep throat, here are five advanced techniques you can learn to make deep throat even more enjoyable for your man. If your man is exceedingly lengthy, and you just won’t be happy until you can swallow all of him to the root, here’s the technique you’ll need to penetrate further into the esophagus.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

July 6, 2008

10 Responses to Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do It

  • margie says:

    thanks………this was very helpful

  • TwoRocks says:

    “After you’ve become very comfortable with taking a penis deep into your throat, you’ll be able to accept a more passive role and let your partner control the depth. An excellent position for this is with you lying on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed.”

    Porn star Cherokee (the Pocahontas of Porn) once had a video clip of that on her website, which sadly is no longer. Man, did I envy that guy in the clip!

    Thanks for this wonderful tutorial!

    ~TwoRocks~

  • TwoRocks says:

    Almost forgot: I have a little tutorial about giving a woman proper head here, so that the guys can learn how to properly say “Thank You!” for some great deep throating.

    Lookie here:

    http://www.tworocks.net/2007/12/stairway-to-heaven.html

  • freiherr says:

    You dont try it yourself, dont you? I love to meet some girl who would do the same. Awesome!

  • Janey L says:

    Fantastic posts, good that the knowledge is getting to where it should.

  • Janet lovebug says:

    can’t deep throat though :(, always had terrible gag reflex. instead I put just the head inside my mouth and begin to swirl my tongue around it just before and during his ejaculation. this seems to give him tons more pleasure then just letting it shoot straight into my mouth plus I get to feel him explode all around inside my mouth instead of just on my tongue.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    I’ll bet he likes what you do! Since only the head is in your mouth, be sure to stroke the shaft during ejaculation if you’re not already doing that. It’ll add to his pleasure.

  • Mike says:

    I wish my wife enjoyed giving me oral but is totally bothered by my thickness and the amount of sperm my body produces. The first time she went down on me she was a champ and had not problem taking me inside her mouth. Then I came. My cock shot my first thick load of sperm down her throat and she gagged really bad and let my cock slip out of her mouth. The next several shots sprayed her face and tits.She was shocked how much I came since her first boy friend didn’t come very much. I recall walking her to her door to say good night so she could run upstairs and clean up. Her mother met us at the door and asked me in for tea. How she did not smell and see my sperm all over her daughter I will never know but after the first blow job my wife knew I would never have a problem getting her pregnant.

  • Angie says:

    Great posts! Very informative (& helpful) So happy I found this blog :) I’ve been working on my DT skills lately & I’m getting much better at it… I’ve successfully tried all 5 of the advanced tricks & a few others ;) my only issue which I can’t get passed is being able to breathe while he’s all the way down my throat. I can breathe through my nose fine for most of it but when he passes a certain part I just can’t breathe anymore. I’ve tried & tried with no luck.. Is it even possible? If you could offer up any tips/tricks to help me out, I’d greatly appreciate it (& so would my man hehe)

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    Sorry, I don’t have a trick up my sleeve for your problem. :) There really isn’t aa physiological reason for it, so it could be a mental block that you’re unaware of. Trying and trying will probably just make it worse. For now, just forget about it, do what you can, and maybe someday when you least expect it, you’ll get past your “sticking point.”

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