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How to Deep Throat Without Gagging

Couple in BedDeep throat is a form of oral sex in which the entire length of an erect penis is taken deep into the mouth, where it often enters the throat. While this feels great to a man, many women are put off performing deep throat because of one fear – gagging. They are convinced that they will vomit, or even worse, actually choke.The main thing you must learn if you want to be able to give your man deep throat is to suppress the gag reflex so that you can comfortably take your his penis into the back of your throat. Once you know how to suppress your gag reflex, deep throat will be just as easy as giving regular fellatio.

5 Ways to Suppress Your Gag Reflex

Suppressing your gag reflex takes time, and the truth is that it’s difficult to eliminate your gag reflex completely. The key is to slowly desensitize it, and these tips will show you how.

1) Disengage the gag reflex.

By gradually getting your soft palate accustomed to being touched, you can minimize your gag reflex, or even eliminate it completely. However, it does require effort and persistence.

  • Find out where your gag reflex starts. This can be done by simply using your toothbrush to brush your tongue. The point nearest the front of your tongue that makes you gag is where you want to concentrate.
  • Brush your tongue right where your gag begins. Yes, you’ll gag, and it will be unpleasant—but not for long. Spend about ten seconds brushing that area (and gagging), and then call it a night.
  • Repeat the process over the next few nights in the exact same spot. You’ll notice you gag less each time you do it.
  • Increase the brushing area. Once you can touch your toothbrush on that spot without gagging, it’s time to move the toothbrush further back. Try brushing ¼ to ½ inch behind where your gag used to begin. This is your new starting point. Repeat the process as you did in the first spot.
  • Continue moving the brush farther back. Each time you move the toothbrush back, your gag has been desensitized in the previous spot. Keep moving it farther and farther back until you’ve reached the farthest visual point of your tongue. Eventually, the toothbrush will come in contact with the soft palate, if it hasn’t already.
  • Once you have desensitized your gag reflex with the toothbrush, you can graduate to a dildo or other penis-shaped object and practice pushing it past the soft palate into your throat.

2) Breathe through your nose.

Concentrate on your breathing. Often, when you are anxious, you’ll find yourself holding your breath. It is better to concentrate on continuing to breathe. Taking a nasal decongestant beforehand can help clear the nasal passageways and facilitate breathing, if your nose is congested.

3) Make a fist.

If you have a particularly strong gag reflex, try this dentist’s trick. Close your left thumb in your left hand and make a fist. Squeeze the tuumb hard.

4) Put salt on your tongue.

Moisten the tip of your finger, dip it into some salt, and dab the tip of your tongue with that. Another way to do this is to put a teaspoon of salt in a glass of water, and rinse your mouth with that. Don’t forget to spit!

5) Numb your soft palate.

When an object touches the soft palate (far back in the roof of your mouth), it can trigger the gag reflex. You can use a numbing throat spray to desensitize the soft palate, or a gel that’s normally used to relieve tooth pain. The effects should last for about an hour, and your soft palate will be less reactive to touch.

Disengaging the gag reflex is the main technique for suppressing the gag reflex, but until you master that, you can use the other tips. When you are ready to try deep throat, my post Deep Throat: What It Is and How to Do it gives step-by-step instructions. Deep throating may take some time and effort to master, but when you see how much pleasure it gives your man, it will all be worth it.

All women know that men LOVE oral sex, but not all women know how to do it properly. Giving good fellatio is NOT just about opening your mouth and bobbing up and down. To find out what every woman needs to know about giving her man oral pleasure, click here!

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