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How to Date a Man with a Small Penis

Slate‘s Dear Prudence has gotten a letter from a woman with a real problem on her hands: the smart, funny, cute, and kind man she has been dating for three months has an extremely small penis.

Dear Prudie,
I am a 30-year-old woman who has been dating a lovely man for three months. He’s smart, funny, cute, and kind. I’ve felt so lucky to have found him. Here’s the problem: We recently became intimate for the first time, and he is, unfortunately, very poorly endowed—so small that I did some Google searching and think he might have a micropenis. I believe that sex is crucial to a relationship, and the thought of having a (potentially lifelong) relationship without an active sex life scares me. When you can’t feel anything during the act, that’s a problem. I know that there are other options in the bedroom, but I get pleasure by doing it the old-fashioned way. Read more

5 Responses to How to Date a Man with a Small Penis

  • Silvie says:

    you can turn him into a cuckold and have the best of sex and the best of a long relationship.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    If she stays with this man, I’ll bet that’s exactly what will happen.

  • Jason says:

    That poor guy, not just to have gotten the short end of the stick, but to find a woman who discusses the matter with an online agony aunt.

  • Svetlana Ivanova says:

    We women do like to discuss male “shortcomings,” don’t we?

  • Bob says:

    So, you are full of SHIT when you say there are “compensatory” positions!

    I saw you vehemently deny it’s a deal breaker on other posts, and yet more often than not, you side with the women who say a small penis is something that cannot be overcome. And here, as with a couple of other comments you’ve made, humiliate and emasculate men with small penises. Like we did something wrong in the womb to make ourselves this way.

    I don’t have a “micropenis” (defined as less than 2 inches stretched) but its just over 4 by 4.5 inches. My fear has always been that small is too small, no matter how little under average. I came across your site from your tantric friend who also lies for the sake of seeming “more evolved”.

    Just say the truth. Once and for all. And don’t blame a “bad attitude”! That’s just a way of evading.

    I still don’t hate women as a whole, but being as dishonest as you have been in your “make a small penis a big asset” and other responses… you make it difficult not to.

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